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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Give me advice to help me have a chance with this boy!

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19 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I don't want to waste anyone's time, but I was wondering if I could just ask a question. I've never had a boyfriend, though I do want one, but I'm quite shy. There is this new boy in one of my classes who I think I really like. I...

Guy says he likes me but he doesn't answer when I call or text

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - This guy says he likes me, but everytime I text him or call him he doesnt answer. idk what to do! Is he really interested in me like he says he is? ...

We're getting comfortable but she won't sleep with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - So I been talking to this girl for a few weeks now. At first, she was very resilient. I heard a lot of the word "no", but now she seems more interested in hanging out. We've gone on a couple of dates/hangouts ( casual dinners, public shoppin...

How can I get guys to notice me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - All my friends have got at least one boy that fancies them. Im not the most pretty in my class but deffinatly one of the most quiet, i struggle to talk to boys and end up making a fool of myself. Ive liked this boy for over a year now and he gets on ...

We had a great first date, we kissed but why hasn't he called me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hi.. I went out with this guy 2 days ago. He's 32 years old and im 26 yo. It was a really great date, we both enjoyed it. We talked about lots of things and shared things in common. We compliment each other and laughed. We had lots of fun and ...

I'm going through withdrawal after seeing my b/f almost daily for 3 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - recently my boyfriend has gone away to university. Its local but i can only get there by catching the train with is a 30 minuite journey. visiting can only be and weekends and texting and calls is at a minimum. I've been with him now for 3 1/2 ye...

Will our relationship get better if we have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - dear cupid. Ive been with this guy well nothing serious. We have been together for about 3 months yet whenever i mention taking things seriously he simply says i like you but im not ready for a relationship we should let things go naturall...

How do I make things official and does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4608 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - dear cupid ive been with this guy nothing serious although i like him alot.. Everytime i bring up the serious dating thing he simply says we should let things happen naturally.. He has stoped talking to me and always waits for me to talk to him and ...

Should I forget about his lies? Why is he insisting on taking other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hey there, I have a question about a boy. We've known each other for 8 months. He's been giving me signs but didn't make the first step. I was the first to do this. I asked him out- we were wondering where to go and suddenly he offered me to take ...

She 'needs some space to regroup'?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - A little background, we're both 27, have been officially together for the past 6 months. Everything was going very well, having serious talks about moving in with each other and eventually letting each other know that we found exactly who we were ...

How do you manage heart-sickness within the relationship?

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19 September 2011 (F) - I'm so content and happy when we're together. We just 'get' each other. We're so very comfortable together with even the mundane things like sitting close watching TV, going to the grocery store, just hanging out. We're also pretty fiery when it ...

The "stranger" bartender...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I saw this guy in a pub. He is working there as a bartender. When I ordered a drink I realised I liked him. I was gazing him with such admire. But then I just gave up, I thought myself that I won't see him again in my life, probably. ...

Should I worry? I can't stop thinking that my boyfriend still talks with his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I've never been to a long term relationship like the one i'm having right now. I was always insecure that the guys are cheaters and they will hurt me, so casual sex was pretty much what i was doing. When i men the guy i'm seeing right now i felt v...

How would I know if he wants me back or if we are back together?

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19 September 2011 (F) - What do you think? does he love me? are we getting back together? My ex bf and broke up cos he felt like he didn't deserve me. He had a one night stand with some girl. and he felt bad so he ended it. I was a good gf to him, I loved him, d...

I'm so sick of his attitude of not caring as soon as I don't follow his ways!

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19 September 2011 (F) - Sometimes I just don't understand my boyfriend or is it me to blame? We always fight at least once a week and I'm fed up. And he never wants to talk about the fight later because he says he'll get mad again . Like today , I was suppose to meet him ...

Why wouldn't he want me to come with him on this trip? Should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - All, my boyfriend and i hv been together for a year. Im 27 and hes 28. Im sometimes jealous and its been a rocky relationship. I dont think he ever cheated but he is a big flirt and has a high sex drive. Now he wants to go on a vacation alone t...

Why isn't she texting me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - So I met this pretty girl she is single and I'm also single We met on a website, and we hung out And walked in the park she started holding hands with me and we made out for awhile like an hour or so Then next day we talked but not like the con...

Please? How do I make his 21st a special occasion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is turning 21 this Sunday the 25th and I don't know what to do for him. We've been together for almost a year and I really want to make it a special birthday for him. I don't know if I should take him to a nice restaurant or cook for ...

Idealistic Love VS Realistic Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Idealistic love is attraction, intimacy, perfection. Realistic love is attraction AND attachment, intimacy AND commitment and perfection found in imperfection. Everyone wants to be in idealistic love. Fact: It only happens in fantasies, movie...

Girlfriend is pregnant and our families are mad at us!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - I have been dating my gf for almost a yr now. She is 17 and I am 18. a few months ago we found out she was pregnant. Since we told our parents its been hell. Her parents were upset, her dad natural blamed me. Its been almost 2 months since we told ...

I love C and he loves me. But what do I do about my best friend A? She'd be mad at me for this

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19 September 2011 (F) - Hi, well I have a problem. Last friday was my school dance and my best friends crush C was there. C told me that A owed him a slow dance,(A likes him but he doesn't like A) but my best friend A didn't show up! Then he said if A didnt show up I had...

I did the right thing by her. But she likes another. How do I cope with this rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - i feel like i did the right thing but it hurts.. i like a girl and we're great friends.. anyways she's telling me how she likes some guy (not me i know who he is) and that she thinks he loves her back.. well i told her what i really know about hi...

Will I lose him? Can LDR work? How do I keep the spark between us alive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year and a half. We're completely and utterly in love and have been since the day we met. We were each other's firsts and he hasn't had much luck with ladies before me. That is to say, I'm ...

I'm 34 and he's 23. How can I help him gain sexual confidence despite his erectile dysfunction issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I recentely started to date a man, and we are having sex problem. I am 34-yr old woman, very attractive, nice body. I have 2 pre-teens. He is 23-yr old man, single. Very thin. I know that we are very attracted to each other, and very likel...

Emotionally he seems to be drawing away from me. Why has his interest waned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hey guys, really need some help here, really getting me down! Ok so basically, i met my boyfriend of eleven months at uni last year. I know this is going to sound so typical and what-not, but during the first few months of our relationship...

Can you think the world of someone and not want to be with them ?

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19 September 2011 (F) - If a guy says he thinks the world of you,what does it mean ?.i'm confused as this guy i was seeing said that even after we stopped seeing each other.one of his friends told me that he said that to him after we broke up and another of his friends ...

Do guys often say as a joke: "I am going to marry this girl"?

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19 September 2011 (F) - So I got a close friend who has been telling me about a childhood friend of hers (also Cuban like her) who has been living in the USA more than 10 years now. He recently came out of a messy relationship and is going to come visit her in Spain so...

Did he ever care? How can I move on from all this ?

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19 September 2011 (F) - Three years ago my now ex and I broke up. we were from different cultures and religions and he decided that his family would disown him and things could not go further after three and a half years and the best part of our younger days together. Fo...