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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He seemed like such a gentleman, and I don't know what I did to make him stop contact!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I'm very confused here, this guy I met last monday we got along so well and both seemed really interested in each other. It was nice to just talk to a guy and properly get to know them, without them slyly trying to creep on! Well, we ended...

Do you think he's using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I just wanted some advice, because I really feel like my bf is jst using me. We knew each other really well b4 we went on our first proper 'date' and by the end of it we were snogging. Since then we have had abt 5/6 dates and every time he just ...

Why do I only want to date my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hey everyone I'm a gay guy and I guess I find it hard to get close to other gay people and I’ve had my fair share of disastrous dates! Anyway I’ve come to realise that the only people I seem truly attracted to are people that I am friends with tho...

She doesn t want me paying for her lunch...what should I do now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - hi, I have known this girl for just over a month and plucked up the courage to ask her out. I asked her if she would like to go for lunch sometime this week. Initially she said, yes, that sounds like a good idea. But then she hesitated and said that ...

She stops me from confronting individuals that want to date her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - We have related with my girlfriend for a year now at campus. now that i finished my program she alone there, she tells me about people who are asking her for love and that she turns them down. However, she stops me from reacting to those ...

We had sex on second date, now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hi.. Met this guy i really like, he's 33 yrs old. Our first date went really well and we enjoyed it so much. We kissed on the first date. He asked for another date which was last saturday to hang out watching movies at his place. So i came. We ...

Did I screw things up in asking her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. there is this girl in my class that i really like. but since we just started uni. we dont know eachother, i sat next to her this afternoon and i began talking to her, i guess it was stupid though coz the first thing i said was hey how ...

I know this girl so can I ask her out directly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I have never asked a girl out on a date. Here is my current situation, There is this girl that goes to the same college and works at the same place as I do. She is very nice and sweet. I don't know what she thinks about me but I know f...

Is it ok for a woman to say I love you first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for a while, and we are very close. We have told each other how much we care about each other in a lot of ways, but haven'y actually said "I love you" yet. Is it ok for a woman to say I love you first, or ...

She never invites me to her home any more. Why does she only suggest we "get a room"instead? What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Let's say you are in a relationship with woman where is has been off and on for years and have been to her place before, in the beginning. but now she moved and told you "she brought a house" and I live out of town but every time I come into town...

I'm the last one to be told anything about his plans. Do I end the casual relationship we've got going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - There's this guy I've been seeing. We aren't official, but have spent the last month and a half or so together. Not long ago I found out, via a mutual friend of both me and him (a friend who does not know we are seeing each other), that he plan...

Has being single so long left me bitter in some way, or maybe desperate seeming?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I've been single for three years. The first year was nice, because I was finding my own life after getting out of a long, young, horribly bad relationship (only one ever). Now I've wanted to be with somebody and have a healthy relationship for year...

Am I in the wrong for not doing it more often or when he asks for oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i are both 26 and have been together for four years. We seem to have the same repetitive arguement all the time regarding performing oral sex on him. The thing is i really dont like doing it, so i dont do it often. maybe lik...

I am moving soon. We argue too much. Would it be healthier to completely separate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months and things are starting to fall apart. I am moving to a neighboring state in a few weeks and we have just been having little arguments ever since i told him. Arguments about little pointles...

I cannot ignore my former LDR any more. I took a risk. Was this the right way to reconnect with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Five months ago, I told a long-distance love (I live in LA; he's from San Fran) that I couldn't do it anymore. Mainly, because he would constantly tell me he missed me and wanted to see me, yet wouldn't follow through. Granted, we only dated six ...

I really do like this girl, but I don't want to be THAT guy. She has a Bf already

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - So i met this girl at school and i started falling for her. After a couple months of crushing, i found out she had a boyfriend. I tried hard to forget her and move on but it was very hard because I see her everyday. So we started becoming clos...

I love him. If he was doing his part, would I be cheating? But am I wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together 9 months, known each other 3 years, havent seen each other in 3 months, spoke on the phone once in those 3 months. our primary form of communication is texting. And sometimes we go a week without a text, es...

Too many arguments. is there a way I can get over him without ending the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - im worried my boyfriend and I are not going to work out. We argue every single day about stupid things. Im deeply in love with him , and what hurts the most is that this relationship was unexpected. He claims that he's in love with me , and that...

I think I'm falling for my one and only friend! Should I carry on flirting and get my hopes up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Well i know you probably hear things like this all the time so, ill try and keep it short as possible and thanks for taking the time to read it!. Basically long story short i think i might be starting to really fall for my one and only friend. ...

Long distance? what is truly happening? Is he just trying to break up?

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26 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and I love him more that I ever thought I could possibly have feelings for another person. During the two years, he was deployed for 9 months and now has moved back home for the last 5 months...

Is she out of love? taking me for granted? it was my birthday 2 weeks ago and she did not plan anything for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - For the past couple months I feel that my girl and I are drifting apart. I feel that I am always trying to hug her or kiss her and it's like she doesn't want it. We have been together only for 2 years now and we barely make love and she comp...

My FWB: I'm starting to like him and I want to know how or if I should let him know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone I'm new to this and hopefully will get some advice ... I've been sleeping with this guy for about a year and half I guess we are friends with benefits. Even though he has said he likes me, and one time after sex he told me I was going ...

Advice on moving forward with girlfriend,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hey all, So I met this girl over the summer and have been seeing her for about two months now. She is amazing. She has made me happier than i have ever imagined. I almost didn't go back to school because of her. I just have a few question...

Does real love even exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I have a question and an opinion to ask of anyone here and if they could please help m out. I want to know if "love" between a man and a woman can really exist? Is it worth it to let someone in and really give 100% to the other individidual? I ask ...

How to get a girl to like me? Did I screw up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hi. I'm a freshman at college. There's a really cute girl in my Chemistry course and I see her around often. Today though, I saw her at the library and talked to her for the first time - she came to the library to do her homework. I asked her if s...

Girlfriend has started partying more on weekends. Is this just growing pains?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Dear Cupids, I have dated a couple of different people in my life, but I've never gone steady with my significant other as long as my current relationship. I am looking for others experience manly in this area and the area of change. I love ...

I left in the middle of the night after sex, now he never wants to hear from me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

26 September 2011 (?) - Hey everyone, about a month ago I started seeing this guy and he was an absolute sweetheart to me and things were going well... Anyway, last night we went on a date and we planned that I would stay at his house for the night. We had sex multiple...

I like her but we're both shy. How can I help her not be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - I've liked this girl at my school for two years problem is we are both really shy. we are friends of friends. Anyway what I want to ask is how can I break her out of her shell I'm ready to do anything. Please help....

Sometimes I feel so in love with my b/f and at other times I wonder why I'm with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. I love him very much but seem to dislike him at the same time. For a long time now, I keep getting into fights with him for no reason (my fault) and keep breaking up with him. The thing is, I've always ...

I'm worried that no woman will ever be interested in me because of my financial problems

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - I need some encouragment. I am 26 years old and just going to college. I am having some money problems with school loans so I may have to drop out, but I will pursue my education none the less. I am worried that no quality woman I would want to be ...

Dating etiquette?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - On our second date he" forgot " his wallet, and for our 3rd he wanted to reschedule because he said he was sick, how should I have reacted/ responded?...

Ever since the first date, it's been nothing but a headache trying to set up the next!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I met a man a couple of weeks ago and had a great first date together. He's a true gentleman and I was excited to have met him. But now ever since the first date,it has been nothing but a headache trying to set up a second date. HE was the one who ...

Becoming too attached to my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hello Aunts! I am sort of in a sticky situation and I am trying to figure out what to do. Any advice would help me greatly! I have been with my boyfriend Andy for almost 8 months. I am 21 and he is 20. We both attend the same University and spen...

Is it bad if I don't want to take my boyfriend to Homecoming?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - My friends say I'm being insensitive if I say I don't want my boyfriend to come to my homecoming dance with me but I just really want to go alone and enjoy it with my girls. Is this really that bad?...

Should I wait for him or just end the relationship now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - 0kay so im 17 and my bf is 18. we've been together for 4 months, but in the last week before our 4 month, we began to fool around a bit. one night when i was home alone i asked him to come over. which he did and he ended sleeping over. that night we ...