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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I know if he still loves me, or if he's moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - How do I know if he still loves me? has he moved on? My ex bf asked me to his house, on sunday I went, he cooked us dinner, we laid in bed (no sex) we talked and kissed lots. I asked if he still loves me he said he still has bit of love in him ...

I need advice on what to wear on my real date with my FWB!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Hi eveyone my fwb has finally asked me out on a proper official date I'm so nervous I was hoping you ladys would give me some advice on what I should wear to make the right impression I've been waiting for this for months I really don't want to mess ...

Why aren't men pursuing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - this has been a constant problem. A guy tries to go out with me and he ends up dropping me like a bad habit. I am beginning to think I freak the guys out for some reason unknown to me. Here's the story. Ill meet a guy and there's instant ...

Will my girlfriend remain like this forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - I am in a relationship with this beautiful girl for the last two years. Until recently my girlfriend and I would keep on fighting over little things . But three weeks back , she fell ill and remained ill for three days. All those three days, I ...

More serious than "boyfriend", not engaged, what do you call it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I have a question about how to describe my relationship. My boyfriend and I are not yet engaged but are very committed to each other, to the point that we are planning on sharing a house shortly. "Boyfriend" no longer seems like the right word. ...

Are these normal games or is he unsure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Hello to all who take the chance to read this. I met a man through a dating website about a week and a half ago. I had a good time,and he seemed to as well. There was a lot of atraction,and he was a very sweet guy. I got a little concerned when he ...

I don't want to break him and his stupid little girlfriend - I mean girlfriend- up, but I kind of want to be with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - So, I have a friend named after a car. Yeah, that's my way of telling you his name. We've been friends since..mmmm..maybe 7th, 8th grade. We weren't really close 6th grade. I've had girlfriends and boyfriends along these few years, I'm in 11...

Meeting my BF's parents for the first time tomorrow and nervous as hell!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Oh geez, I'm meeting the new BF parents am delighted he is proud enough of me to show me off, and I deal with people of all sorts for a living but I am so nervous!!! Crazy nervous, I think because I realised yesterday - like a massive lightnin...

I want my mind back! I think of my girlfriend too much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I'm in love with my girlfriend, and am quite happy. But all my thoughts are about her. I can never get her off of my mind and this may sound bad but I want my mind back. I miss having my own independent thoughts. How do I get my mind to be my own ...

On off boyfriend of 4 years doesn't want to date but wants to borrow money!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Hi Cupid, I've been dating this Scorpio Guy on and off for about 4 years. Now he had broke up with me and told me that we were not compatible but wants to borrow money and he says he's in love with me. I'm so confused what kind of game is he playing ...

He'd rather believe the rumours than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together.for 7 months Now and people always make up rumors about me And tell him lies, and no matter what I say or do He believes them not me. And this time someone told him I cheated on him and he refuses to belive ...

Help me to figure him out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I know women are supposed to be the confusing ones, the ones that dont know what they want, and are hard to read. But this man, i just cant figure out. what exactly does he want from me? ok lets call him Chuck* I started talking to chuck, ab...

The old "love of my life" wants to catch up and talk, do I tell my BF?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - The old "love of my life" wants to catch up and talk, do I tell my BF? I know I'd want to know if my BF was meeting his ex. But I'm thinking guys don't care that much. What's the proper way to deal with this?...

She says she loves me. But what should I do about this relationship? She puts me down, insults me and belittles me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - hey ..i am a 21 yr old guy madly in love with a 23 yr old girl...she might be older but is totally like a kid. she loves me tooo. its been 1 yr to our realtion and eversince we fell in love things started changing. she became very very nagging ...

I'm insecure about my looks, Does he lie to me to make me feel better, because I don't look like a porn star?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I know, I know, another porn question. I need advice especially from females who "get it". I guess I have quite a degree of insecurity. The thing is, I know my boyfriend loves me. I know he lies to make me feel better, because he swears and insists ...

Re-united how can I be certain he will be faithful this time? I am determined to be faithful.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I met my ex 6 years ago. We dated for 2 years. It was a pretty bad relationship since there was no trust nor respect and we were very immature (early 20's). I slept with his best friend before even knowing my ex. I also slept with someone he knows ...

The ex is getting in the way. How do I build more trust between us to keep us rock solid ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I have known each other for eight years. We were always great friends, even tried dating in the beginning of the relationship. At first, it never worked out. So we remain close friends, but we were always attracted to each other. ...

Should I move on? am I being played? He's re-opened his dating profile. What could possibly be going on in his head?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so upset and confused. I really appreciate any and all advice that you guys offer me. This might be a bit long, but I will really appreciate it if you stick in there and help me out. Thanks ahead of time. I've been dating my b...

My 6 months old baby from another relationship is upsetting my new partner. How can I make this better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - So, I know this duels as a parenting question, but since the point of interest is my relationship I figure I should ask it here. Some Background: I am married and have a child from a previous relationship. I'll spare you the gruesome details, and ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend or go after the other guy who has a 6 month old baby and a babymama?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now, our relationship is pretty good, I love him very much. The thing is about a year ago I hooked up with some guy I used to work with, we decided to stays friends but with time we grew apart. ...

What can I learn from this? And can I get over it? I am a major reason for her changing and for the breakup.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - So.. I have been with this girl for a bit over two years now. one and a half of it being long distance. We broke up recently, basically we were breaking and making up for the last 3 months of the relationship. This was the final one basicall...

Three weeks into the relationship. What present would not "spook" seeing as it's early days?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - Hi All, A quick question something I haven't come across before early on in the dating process. I have been dating a girl for 3 weeks, we met online and chatted on the phone etc for about a month before this. We have since had 4 /5 dates. It's her ...

I've started developing feelings for my FWB but I'm worried that it isn't mutual..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - i've been in a friends with benefits relationship with this guy i've know for almost 6 months and im just really confused if he may be developing feelings for me or if im a complete fool and he is using me. we text alot and i go over at least th...

Am I romantically over-reacting? I am having trouble coping with the absence of my girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - im in a distant relationship, i love my girlfriend so much, she is my first love, i used to chat with her on facebook everyday for hours, dreaming about our future, singing to each other, living happy moments of love, treating and standing by each ...

How do I build up to sober sex with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I just got into a new relationship with an incredible guy, and we have so much fun with one another. We went to a party recently, got drunk, and had sex for the first time together. My question is, how do I now build up to sober sex with him, ...