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writes:hey everyone, i just have a lil problem, im doing an exchange program in europe and i really like this girl in my class, shes cute but the problem is shes a lil taller than me even without heels. im actually okay with talkin to girls i like but this time i found it kinda difficult to ask a girl out whos taller than me. it makes me feel like she will just turn me down or something !!how shall i ask her out or even better,,how can i tell if she likes me or not? we go out as a gourp of people and shes always with us..shall i just approach her in a club and ask her to dance with me ? how shall i do that !!thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (5 October 2011):
Hi there. If you like her, just ask her out.
You can tell if someone likes you. You make eye contact with her from across a crowded room - or in the classroom - and see if she holds your gaze.
If she does hold your gaze, well then it's likely that she does like you.
Maybe you could do this for a few days or a week, and if she continues to make eye contact with you, then maybe you could smile at her one time. This shows her that you do like her. All the better if she also smiles back at you.
Another way to tell if someone likes you, is they will look at you when you are not looking. And they will keep looking at you from time to time. A glance here and a glance there.
And you will look at her when she's not looking. And so it goes.
If you can get talking to her either before or after class, you can then see if you have anything in common, and if you actually get along with each other. Because that's important too.
So first off, see with the glancing at her bit, if she does hold your gaze or quickly looks away. Looking away isn't necessarily a bad sign, she might just be a bit shy. So don't give up if you think that's the case. If she is shy and is interested, she will eventually start looking at you when you are not looking at her.
Just gauge it over the next few days to a week, to get a general idea of how she feels. You will get a pretty good idea as to whether to continue or whether to forget about it. It will be a gut feeling.
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