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writes:In need of advice from the bloks (guys)....been going out with a guy for 3-4 months, he hasn't said the BIG 3 words yet but we have a lovely time together. From what I've gathered, his past relationships were with women that started out not liking him (the challenges...ugh) and the one who broke his heart the most was an unrequited love. Should I run since it seems he might be addicted to being a "torch bearer" or should I assume he has matured and gotten over his broken heart. My feel is that I should probably slow things down a bit and take a step back. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, viona  +, writes (7 March 2011):
Look may be he needs more time, just try to attract him more, show your character..make him loves you dearly to the extent he cant leave you... :):) i used the same thing and now iam engaged :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): Has he said he has matured and is ready to try a love relationship again with you and make a fresh start? Ask him...if he makes excuses why he can't or tells you its not the right time than make your exit quickly. You are not a mind reader so just ask..you have the right to know. If you are too afraid to ask than you are afraid of what you know he is going to say deep down.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (7 March 2011):
 3 or 4 months might not be long enough for him to profess love. That's nothing unusual.
I think you should focus on your relationship together, not his past. How does he treat you? How are you two together? Are you happy? Does he seem happy?
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