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writes:So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now (yeah, I know x)), he's 16 and I'm 17 and I love him and I can really tell he loves me too. My problem is: we haven't had sex and we don't want to right now but we've got to half of the 2nd base (2nd base being touching certain areas above clothing and under). He has touched me and I touched him above clothing but I kind of have this curiosity to let him touch my breasts without my bra. I'm just afraid I might regret it and that because of it my relationship will change! He's not pushing me to do it, he never did and he doesn't even know I have this "doubt"...I really don't know what to do . Help me, please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): well i think if you and your boyfreind really love each other maybe you should. its really up to you if your boyfreind pressurises you tell him to stop it and that youll be ready in your own time but you guys are still just touching each other really so i think that when the moment is right then it will be up to you weather ul wanna stay a virgin until u get married or just go with your heart. there is no wrong answers when its up to you. good luck
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reader, mn80mn  +, writes (9 March 2011):
I suppose it's good to lose your virginity only to your husband. After all, you will spend the rest of your life with him.
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reader, Jjang19  +, writes (7 March 2011):
At 16 if the most you've done is touching your NOT ready for sex. Thats not a bad thing, infact, most people who loose their virginity before ~18 regret it. However at age 16 theres no harm in going a little further, because eventually you will take these steps. Just go slowly at a rate that feels comfortable
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (7 March 2011):
I guess you two are old enough to know what you want. I would recommend just do what you want to do. Not what you are supposed to do. And I say that in the both ways. If you don't want something, don't do it. If you want something, don't stop you from doing it. Of course, you have to take your boyfriend's feelings into account too.
I don't see how your relationship will be spoiled by letting him touch you, if you are the one who want it. And exploring your anatomy with your boyfriend is normal at 17. But, if you are not sure, just wait.
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