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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This girl confessed to me of liking the same guy though he doesn't know and considers her as a friend. The guy and I went on dates though we weren't officially gf/bf. We got into a huge fight and aren't on good terms atm. This girl came up to me and was really horrible and started calling me names saying I'm ugly etc and acting like she knew things about my relationship with that guy. She went as far as making up lies about me so other ppl would think I'm a bad person. It was weird because that was the first time she had ever talked to me and she was so rude and pratically yelling at me. She always came off as kind of shy to meI know I probably hurt him but all I was trying to do was makeup with the guy I like and apologize. I don't feel what happened between us is any of her business. I thought maybe she was acting like because she is jealous but since at the moment he hates me there's nothing for her to be jealous of?! Before this she had tried to be my friend but I felt something was kind of off and she was immature so I never paid much attention to herDo you think she is jealous (and why), do you think she has a crush on him? Why is she so mean to me?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 Well I guess if she confessed to you that she likes him then she must have a crush on him. I guess maybe he went to her as a friend after you and him had a fall out and she got really angry because she likes him and doesn't want to see him hurt. But you are right it is none of her business to get involved. What happened was between you and this guy. Nobody else. Try talking to him and tell him what happened and how it made you feel. Nobody should be getting themselves involved. I guess a part of her is jealous because she can see that he likes you and not her. That is her issues and she shouldn't be taking them out on you, its just not fair. Stand up for yourself if she does it again. Plus if she is spreading lies about you she will soon be found out. You are right this girl is very immature.
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