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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I need advice on whether or not this girl likes me. I work opposite her, so see her regularly across the road and such. I go see her a lot of the time but she's seems distant? I'm 26 and engaged to my boyfriend but I seem to find myself going to see this girl for the odd thing. Am I gay? I find myself trying to make conversation with her but she seems to cut me off short and doesn't seem to want to talk? Her face lights up when I go in but she seems to be shy. I see her having conversations with other people and she's quite loud and open but whenever I speak to her all I get is one word answers or a load of jibberish! When I look at her into her eyes she looks around me and looks at me for like a second then looks away. I stand close to her and she moves back and if I lean on her counter she doesn't seem to look at me! Is she into me or not? Help!
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reader, Drat001 +, writes (6 July 2011):
OK, here's the thing: DO NOT get married unless you have settled your sexuality; DO NOT get married to someone if you fancy someone more than your spouse.
Do yourself, your fiance and potential future children a favor, sort these things out before you get married and have children. If you don't and you come to the conclusion later that you are gay/bi and the relationship ends or becomes "complicated," then your children will suffer greatly. I've seen it, trust me, I've seen it destroy families, devastate children, all because people thought they could surpress feelings after marriage. You cannot. Sort it all out now. You don't have to call the wedding off or dump your fiance. Just do a lot of soul searching, figure it out; you don't have to tell your fiance, you just need to figure things out between you and this woman. Then, when you know for certain, you'll be able to move forward from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): She is definately into you, when you like someone so much you can't act like yourself around them because you don't want to get embarrassed, I do exactly the same thing. You could possibly be bisexual, I highly doubt that you are gay since you are engaged.
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