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*ensativeguy010
writes:well I work with this girl and just recently started talking to her and so i finaly asked for her number and she gave it to me, from there we would txt back and fourth sometimes and she would usually always answer in a decent amount of time. So one day she txtd me asking what i was doing for the night after work and i said nothing so she invited me to hang with her and her bestfriend to have some drink and some drinking games and just fun. and so i stayed the night nothing sexual happened or anything(just a little flirting) and when we left in the morning we walked downstairs together and it was pouring outside but when we got down to the entrance she didnt walk out the door she kinda just stepped towards the side and waited for me, idk if she was expecting me to hug or kiss her or she just wanted me to go out in the rain first so i just said goodbye it was fun and walked out the door ahead of her with her behind me. it's been a week since then and she hasnt asked me to hang out our hasnt txtd me at all, but at work we talk and she always laughs at what i say even when im not joking around. This whole situation has confused to me a maximum level because when i first got her number her friend that i also work with and am friends with said that she "doesnt do work things" but then she asks me to hang out with her. i would really like some insight on this and some advice on what anyone thinks! thanks a lot!
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reader, Sensativeguy010 +, writes (11 July 2011):
Sensativeguy010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell guys, i asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime in the week and we set a time for tues after she gets off of work so hopefuly she follows through with it! i also appreciate everyones opnion and makes me feel good that everyone feels the same about this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): she wants YOU to make a move, invite her out :)
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (10 July 2011):
I agree with aunt honesty. She made the first move asking you to hang, now it's your turn to ask her.
And i think you did well not to kiss her, coz you weren't sure if that's what she wanted or not. Kiss her when there's no doubt that it's definitely the perfect moment.
Would love to hear how it turns out so keep us posted!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 It sounds to me like this girl is interested in you and she is just waiting on you to make a move. You say she hasn't asked you to hang out with her since well maybe she thinks you are not interested. Its time for you to make the next move now and ask her out. Ask her if she wants to hang out some evening and see how it goes. Good luck.
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (10 July 2011):
sounds to me like she likes you and was waiting for you to make a move on her because you didnt she probably feels rejected and thinks you don,t like her i would text her see if she replies explain to her how you feel about her she,s probably just as confused as you are good luck
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