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Archived questions from: 6 December, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Twice Rejected and Insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I had a relationship that ended badly as he said he didn't want anything serious then the day after started going out with another girl. Ive just picked myself up about this and seeing another guy when he told me he wasn't that into me and prefered ...

Confused, irritated and falling for her all over again;-(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

6 December 2011 (M) - Hi, I am so confused and irritated I dont know what to do. Approx. two years ago I was travelling overseas and I met a German girl also travelling, (I am from UK) and we dated for 3-4 months, spent days together, and was difficult to keep us apart...

Feeling like I am settling, but he is truly fantastic

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I'm a survivor of domestic violence that went on for 3.5 years. I was 17 to 20 when it all happened and the guy I was with was nine months younger than me. Anyway, I never truly gave myself the chance to grow into my own and learn to be independent ...

Aske me home for a drink - What are his intentions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - If a guy asks you to go to his place for a drink, is he only after one thing ?. He doesn't live comepletely on his own. He has housemates, but he does have his own room. He did ask me when i was going to be out around town again at first, but i said ...

How to tell if a person is gay

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - hi my friend is a lesbian and i am not sure whether i am but how do you tell if someone else is one?...

Vulgar bulgur

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

6 December 2011 (M) - Okay I know this is a rather silly question, but the other night my gf cooked this dish that I hated. She is a tender woman and so I haven't told her yet. The next day she said she was quite pleased with the flavor. Any tips on gently telling h...

Conflicting Signals Have Me Confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Sorry for the length of this... I met a guy on an online dating site about a month ago. After chatting for a little bit, he disappeared. Then he wrote me an email saying that he wasn't up to chatting at the moment as a close co-worker had co...

After 5 Years Why Hasn't He Proposed

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - This is real simple. I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. I moved out of state to be with him and its been me and him since 2006. I have never given him a reason to not trust me. I've never lied to him. I've never cheated on him. I go to ...

Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Being in a relationship where you have regular face to face contact is difficult enough. Being in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) is more difficult. Local Relationships (LRs) require a few things; Honesty, Trust, Commitment, and ...

I'm worried about my b/f and his friend that is alot like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 14 months now,and we had a great relationship before I found a drunken text on his phone to his ex- he said he still loved her. He said it meant nothing, and he cried and was violently sick when i found out,and ...

Do I tell my b/f about a random text I received from a guy who means nothing to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - hey I'm 26 and been with my boyfriend for 16 months. basically I received a really random text from a guy I know but not seen in years and we weren't close....just general at first...( I don't have his number so dsaid idnt know who it was at ...

What do you do when you only have a day with this amazing guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I met a guy on holiday and at first i was adamant that we were no more than friends, though he did earn some points when he kept wrapping his arm round my waist when we walked together. We were with loads of other people (our age, roughly) and he ...

A great guy, but sometimes I'm overwhelmed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a really great guy, kind and thoughtful but sometimes I feel as if he's taking over too much and overwhelming me. He will send me jokes and then say I must mail them to my dad/brother/sister when I feel they are inapprop...

I don't have much experience but I think I get more turned on by affection and romance. Should I tell my Bf how I feel?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I'm with my first boyfriend and not very experienced. To me his penis looks really small when he is lying down and not erect, but his erection is a good size. He thinks me looking at him naked (without erection) should turn me on but I just find ...

My LDR owes me money. He's coming to stay with me. How should we work out who'll pay for what while he's with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend works in another city and is coming to stay with me for 4 weeks on his holiday. He's coming to my place because he lives with his mom and I can't go there, and also I am not going to have time off until next year. He borrowed mon...

He did play me for a fool but he was also interested in me before. Should I now continue talking to him and see where it leads? Or call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - pleasee help me i am overly confused over an year ago i liked this guy and he liked me but he was talking to me and my friend at the same time,i found out and completely deleted his number and everything.after a week or so he got into a relation...

He said I don't text enough. He accused me of seeing someone else. Not true. Now his texts are sporadic. What is going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone this is the story. I met this man in march he asked me out. I agreed. We saw each other maybe every two or three weeks. He lives six doors away from me. It has been like this since I have been patient with him, but it is starting to ...

I'm starting to lose trust on my fiancée. She lived with a male roommate and when I visited her, her sofa smelt like sex!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid I'm becoming not to trust my bride. Tobe. She had a male roommate for about a year he recently moved from her home. Just a few blocks away I live farther distance. I. Viset her and her sofa smelled like sex.I got angrry and left after co...

I feel I can't say no to him. What should I do?" What advice is the best to help me in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl and my boyfriend is 18 year old . Both of us love each other very much but we are of diffrent caste and our family is highly orthodox but he had promised me to marry and now he is asking me to have a physical relationship. I ...

What's on this older guy's mind? Why doesn't he text me like he used to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Hi i'm really confused... There's a guy i've been texting for sometime now. We have an age gap of 9 years but i really like him. We used to text throughout the day. When we first met, i really thought everything went well because he did text and...

Can I rebuild after so many set-backs? I desperately need experienced advice on my heart ache

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I have been a dear cupid reader for 3 years now. This is the time of my life I really really need support and advice. I feel I am really ugly and unattractuve. Please I urge you to read cause it is going to get really long but I will k...

It's awkward. How do I become closer to the guy I like without hurting my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I like this guy and he knows that I like him. One of my closest friends is also a guy. The problem is that my friend seems to get closer to me when ever the guy I like comes to talk to me. It is then that my friend says that we were just leaving...

Was asking him out in a Christmas Card OK and not desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Hi I just asked a guy out in a christmas card because I don't see him to often due to work. He works in the building I live in. Do you think this sounds desperate and how long should I keep my hopes up for him to call? Thank you....

Is he being selfish? My boyfriend wants no sex before marriage, and I'm not okay with that

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - So, 10 months ago I met a guy at a coffee shop. We hit it off quite well. I had to move away for a job, do we were forced into a long distant relationship. After couple months of virtual conversations, we both fell hard for each other. Despite the ...

Is it too much to ask of a guy to put up with my distrustfulness and help me work through to a normal relationship one day at a time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Is low self esteem a big turn off? I don't mean like to the point where you feel like hiding in the basement is all you're worth. I mean, not accepting compliments easily because you think their false. This goes in with my question. I DO NOT have ...

How can I ask him out if I can't run into him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - How can i ask this man out ?. He is much older than myself. I know that he used to go out on Wednesdays and Sundays and there are two places that i know he likes to go in, an i know roughly what time he went out on those days. I haven't seen him ...