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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My father does not like the older man I am dating!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this wonderful man for the 10 months, I'm 23 and he's 38, at first I was sceptical about the whole age thing but I couldn't help myself so we'd sneak away and meet each other at the local park or go a drive.. Anywhere as long as ...

I fell asleep while talking to the guy, do I contact him or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - I'm terrible at this dating thing. So I gave this guy my number and we spent all last night talking, before I so nicely fell asleep on him (i felt really bad after that.) So this is my stupid question..Do I text him first or wait till he get's in...

Sex with a new person felt like the first time? WHY?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - i lost my virginity in june and was sleeping with the same person until october; so i am used to sex by now. so why when i slept with someone else a few days ago did it still not go smoothly? The other person has also lost their virignity so why d...

He has chewed me up and spat me back out... again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - Last friday my ex mm broke nc again I was firm and told him where to go - even rejecting his calls after which he texted me "ouch no need for that" I was v proud of myself I had NEVER rejected a call from him before after this he bega bombarding me ...

My family are pushing me to leave my bf of 2 years, should I just move out?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years but we've been best friends ever since we were 2 years old. so i need help....i cant stand living here with my family anymore. it seems like they care about my brother more...i can never trust them ...

I met a guy while I was out with a guy friend, does the new guy still like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - Do you think this man still likes me ?. I saw him when i was out with another guy. I'm not dating the guy that i was out with. We have only just met, so we are friends, but i don't know if anything else will happen. This man asked if the guy i was ...

Is he still interested? Or should I back off and see if it makes contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - Ok so I've been seeing this guy,our first date was about a month ago. Everything is GREAT when we are together. He opens doors,always pays,and we get along very well with each other. Always good conversation and we can joke around with each other ...

Boyfriend checking in Facebook even when we are together. Am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (M) - Hi, all. I like my privacy, and so I don’t put all my info on FB and other social networks. However, I’m having an issue with my boyfriend: every time he goes somewhere, he ‘checks in’ on Facebook. Now, this is his own business in my view if he do...

Like a guy but he has a girlfriend, should I accept his offer to hang out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - I'm 14, and I've been texting this guy that I have romantic feelings for. Let's call him J. Problem is, J has a girlfriend, specifically someone I know and who is nice to me. I may sound cruel, but they are in no way compatible, and I've continued ...

I thought I was a lesbian so why am I attracted to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - So basically before my boyfriend, I had not looked at a man in a sexual/romantic way for years. I am just not attracted to males, I am borderline repulsed by them really. I am extremely attracted to females, though. I have been dating my boy...

We want to have sex. How do we stay safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - Hello, i'm sixteen and ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 and a half months, we both want to have sex, and neither of us never have. I dont know how to know if im ready, and i dont know if its to early in the relationship, should we wait ...

She loves me but should I believe her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (M) - ahh good ol Cupid, have not been here in many months or years to be exact! Well its that time again where i am falling in love and iv hit a BRICK WALL, to say the least. Iv been seeing this girl for about 6/7 months now, we are not officiall...

I would make the first move, but I'm worried I've misread his signals and I'll just end up embarrassing myself. What do I do?

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17 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. There is this guy that I work with and we get on really well. He's always really flirty with me, but I don't know if he's just that sort of guy or if its because he's generally interested in me. I flirt back, and it feels like something ...

I need advice from women, what does this girl really think of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (M) - I usually talk with a girl about three years older than i am she is 25 and am 22.she is so reserved that some of friends but could'nt succeed. She likes sitting with me and alongside chatting with me and we do play during chatting just like folding ...

Should I ask him out for drinks? I don't live here so it can't turn into anything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4517 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - I recently moved to Florida for work. But next fall, I will be moving back to my hometown in New Jersey. I like this guy who went to my old college and I'm visiting my family for christmas. I was wondering, should I ask him out for drinks? What if ...

She's been acting distant since I showed up late for a date. Should I just call it quits?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

17 December 2011 (M) - Hi, I have recently noticed the girl I've been seeing has distanced herself from me. She hasn't really talked to me properly since I was late for our last date. She offered to meet again the next day to make up for the time we lost. She didn't call ...

How high are the chances that he likes me and we might meet again? Please help me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - I have fancied this guy in university for a year now and although we haven't talked much through the year, we went on a dinner date a couple of days ago. We got a bit drunk after dinner and I went back to his and we kissed and cuddled all nigh...

She wouldn't give me her phone number but someone else gave it to me. Should I call her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (M) - i met this girl at school,she is 16,while I'm 19,i asked her to be my friend,which she agreed to,but,she have refused giving me her phone number,although, i got the number from a guy she gave it,please,help me,should i call her,since she wasn't the ...

My Bf had a message in the drafts folder of his phone saying, "I don't even know why I'm with (my name), she's f**king gross bro, like who hasn't f***ed her."!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - so basically the other day my boyfriend and I of 4 months got in a fight because he found out that I had dated this guy he knows that he thinks is DISGUSTING. It doesn't make sense also because this happened like 6 years ago, it's not fair that he's ...

Ladies, how do you react when your man is attending a bachelor's party which you know its going to be wild?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - Three of my boyfriend's close friends are getting married, two of which he is the best man. His boys have been raving about this bachelors eve parties for the past couple of months. I don't know how to behave or act. SHould I act cool about it or sa...

Remember the Code (Respect Girl Code and Boy Code)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - I'm making this article to remind many people to be aware of "The Code." No, not the code to diffuse the bomb downstairs, but the code of friendship, of love - Boy Code and Girl Code. It seems like everyone forgets what it is. For those of you who ...

Do I pick the good guy or the bad guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - help me!!!! I love two men and have no idea what to do.... one is a good guy ones a bad guy but I just dont know who to choose!...