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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We agreed to meet up for birthday sex and she ended up going all the way with some random 20 year old

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - ok, so i have been going out with this girl for 5 months.im a 17 yr old boy she is a stunning 16 year old :) i met her before the summer and i asked her out. she said ok but i had to go to france for a month. after i got back we had sex and it was ...

I would give up the guy I'm seeing for my ex... but what does he want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hey guys i need some advice... ive been with my current partner for the last 7 months and he is amazing... hes so kind, lovely, caring everything i always thought i wanted in a man, but i realise that there is something as to nice... however after ...

Am I justified in feeling insulted by his behavior towards me over his 'present?' to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I (relationship of 6yrs) dont do presents however today he bought a present for his son's Gf (live-in rent-free gf) a ok Body shop set n some loose items. In jest I asked if he had anything for me and he took one of the items .wra...

Is it usual for the boyfriend to say I Love You more? I was the first to say it and still say it the most...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - Me and my GF have been together for almost months and two weeks now. well to start i said I love you first. I don't know Y but I did. we had only been together like a week or two at the most. and she was very excited i said it and surprised I said ...

If our relationship is strong enough to last this, how can I support him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Please, I'm desperately asking for help! I've been dating my boyfriend since around 10 months now. I am a very emotional person and so is he, so we've had a lot of ups and downs. We kept our relationship a secret for a long time, almost 5 months ...

Advice needed on my on/off relationship to try and resolve our problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I am Having trouble in my relationship with my Boyfriend,We have been together (on and off) for about 3 years, things get bad then we break up for a while and then we end up back together, its like we cant live without each other and we cant live ...

How do I get him to rethink marriage? He wants to be with me but just not ever wed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of a little over a year doesn't want to get married. We have a baby, and he said that he want's to spend forever with me, but he just doesn't want to get married. I have always dreamed of getting married, and it's something I want. Not ...

The woman I'm interested in has just lost her husband, I know she is in mourning but I don't want to lose her to anyone else! How do I handle this situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - I fell in love with a woman at work but she was in a relationship and got married two years ago. Over the past 4 years I have not mentioned my feelings to her but it is fairly obvious that we are atracted to each other. 6 weeks ago her husband ...

When you reach a certain age and want kids would you "settle" for a reasonable partner but it lacks that certain 'spark'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - A question for the ladies out there. When you reach a certain age and want kids do or would you "settle" for a reasonable partner that potentially would be a good father/provider but doesn't provide the excitement or spark or where there isn't quite ...

I'm so scared I'm going to be left on the shelf!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I am now the single one out of all my friends and I don't know what to do. I'm 31 attractive and have a good Job in recruitment. I'm living with friends in London and always had a good social life. However that's recently changed. Al...

In a relationship but found out my girl best mate fancies me, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - My best friends a girl and i fancied her for month, then another girl asked me out and I am going out with her now but my girl best mate told me she fancied me for months and still does, what do i do? Me and my girlfriend has had a lot of argument ...

Might I be bisexual and should I tell my fiance about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I've been with my fiance for two years now, and I really love him. Lately I've been attracted to this woman at work. I've dated women in the past, but always thought it was just a phase i was going through. I still find myself checking out othe...

Why do some men have relationships when they are younger, but only feel like being single or having flings as they age?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Does anyone know why some men have relationships when they are younger, but only feel like being single or having flings, etc, when they are older ?. Is it because they have been on their own for a long time, and they get set in their ways ?. I've...

It's not him, It's me. Can one overcome major trust issues? Would explaining more to him help? Or just breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I am writing here to vent out my feelings and the trouble I'm having in my relationship. I've always been a clingy girlfriend. I do like to spend a lot of time with my boyfriend and I would get disappointed if he would not do the same. The onl...

Are we just friends or are we more? Should I make a move and tell him again how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Ok, so to make the story short I am a 24 year old college graduate with a good job, raised as a roman catholic, believe in God. My guy friend who is 25 years old college graduate and no job when out for a couple of months during high school (it was ...

Is there any difference between pleasing yourself and being pleased by someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 19 and pretty much completely inexperienced, generally and sexually. The only sexual thing I've done is given a guy a handjob. I have never shown skin before, and have never experienced anything sexual on my part with a guy. ...

When is the right time to tell someone about how sexually experienced you are?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - This might seem like a funny question, but when do you think is the right time to tell someone about how sexually experienced you are ?. Should you wait until you actually become sexually active with them, or should you tell them before that ?. I ...

I have tried to play hard to get, that did not work. I have tried a little of a direct approach. Not sure what to do anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - A mutual crush developed between me and my boss at my last work place. However, nothing developed as we were working together. While I was there his body language towards me was a dead give away. It took a while for my feelings to start ...

Social outings, my boyfriend, and his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hi Hope u can help as I just need advice as I am in a very new situation! My fella and I have been together nearly 6 months. He loves me as I do him. However, he has 2 wonderful children (who I haven't met yet) and I understand that he has reg...

Is this one of the situations where everyone knows and the person actually "involved" is the last to know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I've known this guy since we were in high school. We're both 25 now. Recently we took a 2 month training course together, where I got a chance to get to know him a lot better. There were only about 15 of us enrolled in this program, so we a...

Is it important to have things in common when you date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Everyone I've dated, and people that have shown interest in me have never shared anything in common with me. Personality, hobbies, likes, interests etc... I was seeing someone for a little over a month and that ended because we had little i...

I knew my Gf was moving before we started dating. What do I do now? Do I let her go live her life and forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - Hello! I have been dating a girl since early September who i've known for a year and a bit. I am 18 just finished my first semester of Engineering, she is almost 17, finishing up highschool. We get along really well, I like her a lot. We've do...