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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I told my b/f I only slept with someone once while we were broken up but that's not true. what if he finds out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - me and my bf of 2 years broke up earlier this year and were apart fir a few months. during that time i was sleeping with someone, it was a rebound he was gorgeous and he made me feel good but there was nothing more to it. as soon as we got talking ...

To contact or not? How long to wait? Guys are confusing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Friday night (about midnight) I met up with a female friend from out of town who was out on an internet date with a guy at a bar. There was another guy hanging out with them when I arrived. He was nice, quiet, a little more reserved (much like my ...

Why do guys never have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I just don't understand what is going on. There's a bunch of guys that I'm ALWAYS talking to, and some that I flirt with constantly, with them flirting back. Yet, they never ask me out. I don't mean to brag, but to me, I think I'm sweet, smart, ...

I like this girl -asked her on a date - said yes - got busy - now seems distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - Ok, here goes nothing! I am a confident 23 year old male. I met this girl (19) about 2 months ago and we hit it off. We spent many late night chatting/texting each other. Mostly learning about each other through those chats. I found out that s...

Is there anything I can say to get us back together without sounding desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Ok, so I am a teenager. About a month ago I got my very first boyfriend. It was wonderful; I really like him. He's a teenager too, he's just a few years older than I am. He is very kind and very sweet. About a week ago, he broke up with me. He s...

If he's with me then why doesn't he remove his status as being single?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for a year now, on and off. When we are together its great and I love him to bits. But one thing is bugging me. He has his relationship status as single on his facebook and when I ask him why he just shrugs it off and says ...

I know she has a boyfriend, I want to get to know her, should I send a message on facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - right i work at a big supermarket and the checkouts are in front of the store and my department is right at the end next to the checkouts and there is this girl that works on the checkouts every sunday. i think that she is beautiful. i jus...

Why do guys think it is ok to kiss women they have only just met?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Am i strange, or do other people think the same as me ?. I hate it when i go out to bars and a guy who i have only just met expects me to kiss him, especially if he tries to force me to kiss him, by grabbing me or holding my face or something. And i ...

I'm falling for this guy! Is he just being dirty or does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (?) - I have been in college since September. When I started I use to notice a guy in my class always looking at me and we never really spoke to each other until about 3 weeks into the course. He's very flirtatious to me. He is with some of the other gi...

How many dates before a kiss or to be official?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - Very quick question: How many dates would you like a man to take you on before he tried to kiss you/asked you out etc? I know it probably depends on different attitudes and opinions of different women but still, just want to know what you think....

How many weeks/months should you wait before having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I have been browsing the site for an answer to: when is it best to have sex for the first time in a new relationship? Most replies were about the date number ...(1st to 5th etc.) but what I would really like to know is a time frame: how many ...

How can I get to talk to him more?

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5 December 2011 (F) - Hey there :) The guy i like is in the year above me in school (Which is the same year as my sister)Anyway we had been talking for a little while and when we saw eachother we always stopped to chat or atleast say hi to eachother. However over t...

Did he originally have any intention of texting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - A few months back I gave this guy my number on the Tuesday evening saying it would be nice to hear from him he replied that he would text later but was then off out to a barbeque. Whether he meant later that night literally who knows. I guess if you ...

We haven't even dated and she came on kind of strong and clingy. Should I even bother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - Met this girl during orientation at work. All I know is I couldn't keep my eyes of of her, only problem is that she live an hour and a half away. I left my number on her car on the last day of orientation, because I knew I wouldn't see her again. ...

Should marriage be in my dreams only?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I am a working happy young at heart 59 years old woman-kinda short and 'cute'm I am currently living with my 46yr oldboyfriend. We have been in a monagamous relationship for about 3-4yrs. His family loves me-as does my family love him. Do you think ...

How can I show him I am not joking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Hi there's this guy he says that I am one of those many girls that can turn him on,I love his conversations their always interesting , He Respects me but loves to tease me and make funny jokes about me He says he loves it when I am angry because I ...

His ex is hovering around him and its driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Ok, so I don't usually visit these sites, but I'm really In need of some honest advice, I am 34, and and engaged to be married next year, my fiance is 33,we got together about 3 years ago, I knew he had a past and a rep for being a bad boy, but it ...

I get bored very quickly in relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! Just a quick opinions post. I get bored in a relationship very quickly. I hate the texting part, hate facebook chat, all that. It annoys me that technology has to be used so much to keep a relationship! So, i find that i get bored and ...

Wait 6 yrs or call it quits now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - What would you do if you were me? 48 yr old in a 1 yr relationship. He wants to date for 6 yrs then marry, due to him recently buying and renovating his house. I'd like to get married now. I can't see the back and forth for that long. I take ...

What am I doing wrong? Girls always just want to be "friends" with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - Ok simple problem....what am i doing wrongly with girls? At the moment i must have about 15 girls i have flirted with in the past and they have now decided that i'm "like a brother", "best friend" or like their gay best friend. Its pretty obvi...

Is he just being polite? Or do you think these are positive indications of romantic interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I just met a guy at work a few days ago. He works there too, but I just started a week ago. I work in a bookstore, and we passed each other in an aisle, and I smiled at him and he smiled at me, and then he stopped and said "hey, I don't think I've ...

My fiancee does not want her parents told we are engaged. How do I build a better relationship with her parents? Kind answers only please!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months and are now happily engaged. Seems simple enough, right? Well we are both 17 and out parents don't exactly approve. My father says that he is happy that I have found someone I would like to ...

Why would a man appear jealous if you are with someone else, even though he himself does not want to be with you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I just need opinions on this subject. Let me give a little info on my situation. I am seeing a man, and we have decided to just be friends with benefits. We have dated in the beginning and when a relationship was brought up he stated that he ...

He says he likes me but respects me too much to have sex with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I have a friend with whom we began to send nude photos to each other ending out masturbating one another. We did it several times and he started saying he wanted sex, then it was me who wanted sex and now he has backed off saying he can not treat me ...

Too many quarrels, Could she change for the better? And can we still get married to each other in the future while she fights like this?,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - I have been in this relationship for 3 years. My girlfriend has some behaviours that i don't like. she hardly apologises to me every time she does something horrible, whenever we quarel, she abuses me with all kind of different insults which i neve...

I just really can't stop thinking about him. I don't know what to do. Would it be wrong to date her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Last friday night I went to a bar to celebrate my cousin's birthday. She's not my blood cousin but I've known her since she was born. Her sister was there and although we aren't very close I still consider her family. A few years ago the cousin (the...

I'm in junior high. He's a freshmen here in my state. Why is it be bad for us to go out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Im a junior in high school...and well im talking with this guy at school. Hes cute, funny, respectful, and just cool to hang out with and the same age as me. The only thing is...that since he's from a state in the west, his whole grade thing is mess...

Missing my LDR. Am I pushing him away? Am I starting to lose feelings for him, because I'm doubting myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is away on placement for 5 weeks and its only been two weeks without him. He's in Africa and im in the UK. We have been together for 8 months which for me is a long time as im not one for relationships. i feel like I'm pushing ...