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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is my boyfriend being thoughtless by refusing to change his facebook status?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I was having some issues with my bf because of his ex and his friendship and working with her. Anyway he swore to me that although he did really like her, they didn't really have a great relationship, that they didn't have a connection l...

My younger man wont pull his weight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - OMG!! I really do not know what to do? My situation is cunning, baffaling and powerful. I am a 37 young African American Female who is a college graduate, hard working, intelligent, parent. Who tries to do the best in all situations. My problem is ...

What exactly goes through a women's head when they allow me to keep treating them like trash?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - I am in awe at the way women let me treat them and I just don't get it. Ill see a girl I like and treat her like complete garabage but she still chases after me so I continue to do it because it works every time but I've had enough, I just don'...

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend will not tell his parents. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Dear cupid. Im 20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. my bf of 2 years. still has not told his parents and I dont know what to do. I gave him option to leave if he wanted and he decided to stay but is still making no effort. His parents need to know ...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

He said to try things again in 2012?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4497 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - i've been talking to this boy, texting, faceboook, meeting up.. it was all going great until we had a little bit of an arguement but we both said were sorry and all. he started talking to a few girls on his facebook, liking there photos etc.. his ...

I became too controlling and she wanted out. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - i have being going out for a lass for 4months it was all good until we started rushing things abit n seeing each other everynight. thats when i started making mistakes n became over protective of her i deleted her male friends numbers of er phone n ...

No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months? We were casual for the first month and a half. Then we agreed to date exclusively. He swears he wants to be w...

Should I just take those months off and leave those crazy people in my family behind or should I listen to their opinion and give up on my fiancé?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hey there! My mom passed away last spring and it's still pretty hard for me to bear. Plus, my fiancé had to move abroad (2hr plane ride) for work and although we get to see each other every other week, i miss him incredibly. I also miss my mom like...

Should I make the first move? Or should he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I need some help. I am in love with a close friend but I don't know what to do about it. I am a girl but I am like 4 years older than him so who should make the first move? Who should make the first move me a girl or him a guy 4 years younger ...

I just went on a vacation and fell in love with the waiter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - OK I am going to sound absolutely ridiculous. I just went on a vacation and my waiter and I fell in love. He works every day on the cruise ship and gets only 1-2 months off a year, and when he is off he goes home to northern africa. I can go see him ...

Puzzling male behavior with this guy! Male advice appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well, this guy invited me out once, during the date he arranged to go to the cinema together, then we go to the cinema and he doesn't really talk a lot. then he suggests to have some dinner. then he makes me pay for everything. no problem, I get it, ...

My boyfriend wants these poisonous "friends" back into his life, but I feel as if my life is being turned upside down again. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for 4 years and we have had a great relationship - he's stuck by me through everything even when my mum and brother passed away 2 years ago and everything was hectic. We are now living together, we both work and are very ...

I want to move out. Without him coming too. But how do I tell my BF this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone here my problem my boyfriend and i been together for 4 years since we been together he hasn't worked. But i work 40 hours a week. we said from the start we.want to move in together but i'm thinking of moving into a studio alone for a wh...

I like him, but don't know if he's too messed up to make it worth pursuing. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My lab partner in my chemistry lab is probably one of the best looking guys I've ever met. The problem is that he doesn't appear, on the surface, to care about anything. He goes to lectures hungover, currently drunk or, on a few occasions, clearly ...

How do I get my family to show my boyfriend the same respect that the other men in the family get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - When my boyfriend tried to help with some clearing up my mom was icredibly rude to him instead of just saying no thanks. My sister is also sort of rude and sarcastic when she speaks to him, and the attitude seems to have rubbed off on her husband ...

I don't have any female friends to interpret this girl, so can you lot shine some light on this please..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - Hi all :) I have a friend who ive known for a good 5 years, although last 3 years we only meet every few months due to university. I went out with with her and few friends on a night out. When we got back home from the night out, i went into h...

I don't know what to do I just can't seem to make the break.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I have been having relationship problems for the past 15 months. It all started with me going away on a hen weekend. Upon my return i told my partner who i live with that i would like to take our relationship to the next level. His response was ...

He prefers to spend NYE with his mates rather than with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My question is quite a short one, and I’d love to hear lots of opinions on this – since I have been with my bf I have always felt that he likes to be with his friends and not me NYE. We tend to spend Xmas together and although last year we were ...

He didn't tell his ex he is TAKEN so she keeps texting him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and we have a great bond. I trust him fully and trully. He is very honest with me and tells me everything about him and his only ex. They have been together for 2 years and so. He thinks that ...

My new boyfriend is really sweet and caring but I am in love with his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4505 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I've just begun dating a new guy. I'm 17 (18 in 1.5 months) and he's 22. I haven't known him that long, we've only been together for 3 months. He's a really sweet and caring guy and he makes me really happy. The only problem is that I think he is in ...

Little contact, should I just her outright if she's not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - Hi, I've recently been dating a girl. We have slept together a couple of times and spent a few days together. We met nearly two months ago. We haven't seen each other for nearly a month but have been in contact on the phone however she has become a ...

Am I ever going to fit into his busy schedule?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I've been dating my bf for about a little more than a year. I'm still in college but he's just graduated and now has a full time job, along with other extracurricular activities he's been doing for a long time. He claims we won't be able to see each ...

He ends his messages with "love (his name)"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - When a man you dont know that well writes "love" and then his name at the end of a message, does that mean he is interested ?.We met last week and he bought me drinks and danced with me and he also said in the message that he would like to go out ...

I need tips on how to give a sexy surprise!

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29 December 2011 (F) - Guys... Some advice pls.. I've been with my man 6 months and only in the last 2 months have we started sleeping together, until now I've been quite shy.. Well when I say shy I mean like its all kissing touching and then straight into it. I'm ...

He is himself around me, but with other girls he tries hard. What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4505 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I'm dating my best guy friend that I've known for almost two years already. We've been going out for almost a month now but we were talking for two months before that. Before me he dated this other girl for 1 year and some months but she broke it ...

Should I go out with what I feel is a pity date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - An acquaintance of mine from high school has asked to take me on a date. Thing is, through the 5 years I've known him, I'm really not attracted to him. It also seems as though he's trying too hard to impress me about himself by saying how he st...