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anonymous
writes:i broke up with my first bf a couple months ago. we were together for about four years, and it wasn't working anymore...i still love him, but we were fighting a lot for no reason, i was constantly crying and it was taking it's toll on me.at first, i thought it would be good if i spent some time alone, learn how to live without him.now, i think i'm ready to go out and meet new people, or at least i thought i was...i went to a club, yesterday, with my friends and there were a lot of hot guys... but whenever they'd look at me, i'd immediately turn my back! i didn't mean to turn my back to the guys, and i don't know why i did it...i'm not shy and flirting used to be so easy for me before i met my ex...i don't know what's wrong with me... fact is, i still have feelings for my ex, but i want to get over him! it's like, unconsciously, i still felt like i have to be faithful to him...how do deal with this? has anyone ever had similar experiences?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 August 2011):
 Two months is not very long to be out of a long term relationship so you will still be processing a lot of emotion and feelings. Don't turn your back on guys it's ok to talk to other people. Just talking to another guy is not going to mean the beginnings of a relationship. Just treat it like the opportunity to learn new things.
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