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male
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anonymous
writes:There's this girl in my neigbourhood; pretty, intelligent and gorgeous. She's been like making passes at me (which i intentionally ignors). Of late, she's bin texting me love messages and even told me that i'm the guy she dreams of, she loves and needs me ...... and all that. But the problem is, "i feel nothing for her" and based on the fact that she has been doing all she could to prove her love (which i don't doubt), i just can love her enough as to date her. Even though she seems so perfect. I don't want to take undue advantage of her! I dont wana hurt her, because i know that if i decide to date her (out of pity), i'll surely end up hurting her. Im not in any relationship per-se, but i feel nothin for her. I even had to fix a meeting with her to discuss is properly; here, i bared my mind as to the fact that i have no feelings for her. But all she keeps saying is ... .."GIVE ME A CHANCE TO CONVINCE YOU". I have suffered in the hands of someone like this, i know the pains and trauma involved and i'm trying to save her this. But she fails to understand.WHAT DO I DO?
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reader, Kirstyteenauntireland  +, writes (12 August 2011):
 Good Luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to you all, you guys are indeed heaven sent cupids. I'll try out all ur suggestion(and i hope one of them works). Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011): Tell her you're not interested and when she forgets all about you and falls head over heals for a guy who outshines you and feels the same way for her don't fret or try to ambush her good thing that was once all yours but you turned your nose up to.
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reader, he4she  +, writes (8 August 2011):
If all the above answers doesn't work:
This may sound mean but start acting dumber than hell and she will start leaving you alone, I know from experience this works.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2011): Leave her be if you have no feelings for her. But in a year's time when she has a attractive boyfriend, you may change your mind. It happens. Sometimes what is no longer available seems very attractive. That's the strange world of love I'm afraid.
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reader, Kirstyteenauntireland +, writes (7 August 2011):
It sounds to me your not ready for a relationship right now but tell her that. Tell her that you don't want to hurt her by leading her on to something that will never happen and tht you just want to stay good friends
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