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writes: dear cupid,soo, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two months now. it would have been almost four, but there was some drama caused by circumstances that were beyond our control, soo, we had to break up for, like, a month. the first time we were together, everything was totally great, and this time has been no exception. buuut tonight, something happened that's got me a little worried...soo, i was hoping that maybe someone on here could help me figure out what's going on.see, my boyfriend is a welder who works graveyard shifts, and the company he works for has had him working seven days a week. he decided to take off this weekend and invited me to come stay with him. we spent most of the day friday together, and i stayed at his apartment on friday night. we spent today together, too, and i was supposed to stay at his apartment again. buuut while we were at his parents' house, he told me that he was going back to the apartment to go to sleep and sent me back home. well, that was about three hours ago, and come to find out, he hasn't even been asleep--he's just been "sitting around bored."my question is, why did he send me home when we were supposed to spend the whole weekend together? and why did he say that he was going to sleep if he's actually not? i've always trusted him, and i'm trying really hard not to let this change that...but honestly, that's kind of a hard thing to do. should i be worried??? and what's the best way to talk to him about it??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 August 2011):
 Ask him how he slept and if he lies then you know something is up and you can tell him you know he didn't actually sleep and then ask him if there's something going on that you need to worry about.
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