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writes:I recently broke up with my boyfriend. He couldnt deal with the fact i wanted to wait til i was married to have sex. He told me he couldnt be that person for me. I decided to be strong and walk away.Just wondering are there any like minded guys out there like me who want to wait.. Or any stories from females with boyfrds who are waiting/husbands who waited.I am starting to feel upset wondering will this happen with every guy..so please let me know so i wont give up on the whole male race and become a spinster! Desperately in need of some hope...thanks
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reader, manofmanyquestions  +, writes (21 April 2011):
are you religious at all? the LDS church (often referred as mormons) believe in waiting til being married before having sex. move to salt lake city UTAH and you'll find a guy with your standards i promise :) disregard any of your friends opinions and just find out for yourself what their beliefs are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): Yes, men who want to wait DO exist. I know, because I married one. I learned this about him on our second date when he was telling me stories about his exes, and how they made fun of him and called him gay and one girl called him "the virgin loser" for wanting to wait.
Trust me, before I met my husband, I was starting to wonder the same thing. They are out there, just hang in there!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (21 April 2011):
 Everyone is different. There are men like your boyfriend who don't want to wait and there are men who do. Same as women. Not every man will want to have sex right away, some people appreciate that it should be something special between two people who deeply love each other.
If you feel as though every man is like that, perhaps you should look into the type of men you are drawn to. If you keep looking and if you practice patience you will find a man who is perfect for you and I am not saying that merely to raise your hopes, I am saying this because at times you will feel like a proper relationship will never work for you, at times things seem as though they will never happen and you start wondering if you should just surrender to whatever life throws at you but patience will always guide you toward what you are looking for.
I hope that helps.
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