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Should I even try with this boy?

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Question - (21 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi guys

so I am having trouble deciding whether i should try with this boy, or even if he likes me..no idea.

We met a couple weeks ago and we text sometimes (he texts me then a few days later i text him, so on...)

anyways he seems like a guy who doesn't speak much, or maybe its just me? he only talks when i ask him something and its a one word sentence...we met up once so far at a dance that i went to with some friends [he didnt know them, i was surprised he came] but he doesnt live near me (an hour and a half away) and im always so busy, and he hasnt suggested meeting up with me halfway, but hes told me a few times to go visit him (which im not willing to do because i dont have the time!)he seems sooo chill that i just can't read him.

what do you guys think?

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A female reader, CaliMoore United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2010):

CaliMoore agony auntI think the reason why he 'seems sooo chill' is because with you always being busy and not willing to visit him to him may look like excuses, and he may see this as you not being totally interested in him. He may think hmm.. this girl is giving me mixed signals? she texts me, but won't come visit me or make time for me, shes somehow always busy! she must not want to see me anymore.

Think about it from his perspective. Text him more than you usually would, flirt and joke around, reply to him straight away so he can see that your keen, if he is too he'll soon start to show it. Make time for him just once, go visit him and see what the results could be. He could change completely and not be so 'chilled'.

Good luck! xoxox

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