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Archived questions from: 24 June, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

If he likes me, why's he so quiet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Hello my question is pretty simple. I have a friend and all my friends from the way hes behaved are sure he likes me. The thing is he doesnt speak to me much, sometimes he will and others he wont so they cant tell whether hes generally shy or...

Why don't I love him? Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - My bf is hot,cute and honest and loves me like hell. And here is the turning point. I dont love him. Why why why wont any one love some one like that? And thats why i broke up. But he still loves me and i still think why dont i love him? I want to ...

I'm shy! How do I flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Hi i need abit of advice. How do i act more interested and flirty with my friend? Its strange but people think he likes me but is to shy. hye fines with any other girl or person he will join i9n talk to them but me...nothing. People have told me to ...

What's gotten into him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* I met this guy last year, who I got really close to and in a way, fell head over heals over. He isn't the nicest guy you could meet, he's the cocky, douche, player, immature guy who happens to be really hot! (haha) So during s...

He sitll has her number. What does it mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - what does it mean when your boyfriend of 1year and 4 momths still has his ex girlfriends number in his phoe,but say he dont call them...

I love two guys who should I pick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* wll i have been dating my best friend for 4 months now and i can say that i love him so but i have been liking this guy for two years and he beraly let out his true feelings for me i have been hanging out with him often an...

Strange relaionship with my ex-teacher...how to explain her behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* Well...my story is quite long but... I am one of the happier people who once fell in love with their teacher. I am a woman, my ex-teacher is a woman too, 30 years older, so in fact she should be more mature than me. And yes,...

She's a virgin. Will she get used to foreplay over time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - Okay I have a few questions, I dated a girl not to long back that I lost my virginity to, she was a whore so I never really liked sleeping with her, but because of that fast, I got really good at using my fingers on her and bringing her to a gushing ...

Does he love me or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* Its just coming up on 3 months of us kicking it. The last month has been totally different. First let me say he got laid off about a month ago and his aunt just before he found out about his job. Now we do not talk tha...

My girl likes them more than she likes me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - I believe a topic like this was opened except my girlfriend has been "best" friends with these 2 guys her "whole" life...We've been dating for several months now, but I really feel like a second-class person whenever they talk on facebook about good ...

Should I confront her or trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - Hi to anyone out there. Hopefully you can help me with some advice. I just registed to use this site as an outlet for some of my thoughts and pains. I need some advice as to whether or not my gf may be cheating on me, and how to discuss the s...

To text or not to text him - that is the question.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - so i know this guy and sometimes we flirt over text. about three weeks ago i texted him (he only replies when i ask him a question such as: are you going anywhere cool this summer?) he doesn't really ever reply when i just say "hey". so anyway thre...

Enough with the "Mr. Spock"! I want some Spark!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - This may not sound like something to complain about but it seems as though my boyfriend is too logical or practical or something. Its taking away the romance from our relationship. He doesn't think the romance part is very important and ive told...

Should I trust the boy who's been hiding his very dark history from me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Hello, I hooked up with a boy two years younger than me...(I am fifteen.) He was really sweet and passionate, but I just found out about his more-than-unusual past. My mum approached me about it, and let me know that he'd spent quite a bit of time ...

Am I in a dangerous relationship or am I over-reacting?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Im starting to worry about my boyfriends behavior and it he has the potential to become abusive in the future with our relationship. we have been dating for about 3 months. he is almost twenty and im sixteen. he always wants to be with me. we hang ...

I do not want to play second fiddle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Hello - i am new here, i am going through a very complicated situation and i need advice. I know this seems so wrong but i really need constructive comments. We met four years ago and we always get along very well but as we do not live in the same...

I tried to give him my virginity, but couldn't. Now he won't text me anymore!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - hi, i am chelsea... well i went to my friends house and i met her cousin jake. we had been talking for the past month on myspace but we really hadnt met. he seemed very sweet and he used to txt me everyday first. well we talked about the day i was ...

No french-kissing and no foreplay makes this woman unfulfilled.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I, have been dating for 6 months. We have known each other for over 10 years but never dated. We are intimate and spend almost every night together. However, he doesn't really likes "french kissing". I have suggested and discussed ...

If you were kissed by a man in the 'just friends' category... you would...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - Girls, how would you react if your best male friend kissed you? As in we are both 26 and she does know I like her but on this day we were just driving and I suddenly pulled the car over, and she said "what are you doing", I said "this" and leaned ...

Why does he say I am difficult and how can I stop being attracted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - ok so there is this guy i think i like not sure if its my mind playing tricks on me but i have liked him for the whole of 2009. i dont want be with him becuz of his past and he knows this. but the physical attraction is incredibly strong between us. ...

My boyfriend is never in 'the mood' for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years doesn't want to have sex with me! When I say sex I mean intercourse and giving me oral. I go down on him regularly and we both enjoy that, but that's where our sex life seems to linger. When I try to initiate sex one...

How can I help support my boyfriend and rebuild his confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend(23) and I(20) have been together for a while and love each other very much. We have been having sexual intercourse but have been having issues..he can't seem to keep his erection. His doctor has said that it may be a reaction ...

DearCupid has helped me with this online lover before and I need your help again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - I met a guy on the Internet who lives in Sydney and am feeling unsure about his latest antics and am wondering whether things may be changing for the better or whether he is still out to exploit me for his own gain. I'm aware that I need to pro...

Pictures of my girlfriend's chest are on another man's phone!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - What should I do. I have found out on a recent night out my long term girl friend allowed one of her friends boy friends to take pictures of her breasts? I only found this out when I read some messages he has been sending her on facebook about h...

He doesn't ejaculate often. Is it me or him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Hi everyone ive been sleeping with this guy on and off for a couple of months now and only once has cum and that was from a blow job, Anyway sorry to sound disgusting but last nite when having sex, he kept saying he wanted to cum inside me,...

Is this my baggage or am I right to be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - Im feeling very anxious in my current relationship. I have been with this girl about 2 years now and all can be pretty well in the main. We were both single before we met but had previous relationships in the past. We went through the conv...

He says we're good friends, but I feel invisible near him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - This maybe long but i need to get it off my chest and put a stop to it. Me and my friend(a guy we'll call him Jay "not his real name" to save confusion) I dont know what to do. he says we;re good friends and all but honestly i try to talk to h...

Should I be reading between the lines?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - I have been dating a girl for over a month now. She has no parents(hasn't since she was 16). She is very closed off and also very cautious which I understand. I am leaving for a month and we decided to try to stay in contact and we will see how it g...

Hiding my feelings for my friend is tearing our friendship apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - About a year ago, I moved to a new city to take part in a new training course. I knew no one and the nature of the course and my job makes it hard for me to meet new people. However I was fine because I struck up a really good friendship with a guy ...

I'm out of control and sleeping around because I can't handle being rejected by my bestfriend and boyfriend..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Ok, me and my boyfriend of 14 months are very shakey at the moment. We're constantly arguing and hardly talking! Secondly my best friend is no longer talking to me because she got involved with a drug dealer and i told her dad for her own safety! ...

She says she is not looking for love right now, I don't want to scare her away, but I'm interested!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - I like a girl, she's 23 and I'm 31. I really want to be more than friends, but she says she is not looking for love at the moment. (I think I read on here that women always say the opposite to what they really mean!) Has anyone got any tips on ...

What am I not understanding here? She says I'm not supporting her but that my support is "just words"..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - Hi guys. Thanks for reading my post. Hope you guys can help me. Well, straight to the point. I had sex with my girlfriend. The last time when we did that was last week. I know by doing that, I have a risk impregnating my girlfriend since...

My boyfriends behaviour is very confusing...not sure what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship, usually. We have a 2 year old little boy, a fab house and we're currently planning our wedding for next year. When he's had a drink, he gets loud (which I can deal with) but if I don't want to continue...

Should I give up on him and find someone my own age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - I'm 23 and the man I'm in a relationship with is 52 and divorced he and his ex-wife share custody of their 14 year old daughter. I really feel a connection with him but all my friends judge me for our age difference. All I ever hear is you have ...

Would it be better to forget her despite how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - A long time ago i met this girl who over the years dated quite a few of my freinds, i liked her alot but everytime i was going to ask her out a friend beat me to it or she was already with someone. After about 4 years of knowing her i finally asked ...

How do I get over a fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - im finding it very hard too forget about this guy i had a fling with for 2months, the last time i saw him he was chattin up a girl in my face, i cant even move on cant stop thing about it. no guy in my past never done these things in front me knowin ...

It's killing me not telling her how I feel so should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - I ask this a lot and I never get many results but I really need to know what to do about this. There's this girl, we'll call her Carly. I'm really in love with Carly. I see her almost everyday. I hang out with Carly, her brother, and one of her c...

Will I always push guys away out of fear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - I've never had a boyfriend and yet I have had sex; I feel horrible about myself. I've had plenty of chances to be in a relationship and I've always wanted to be in one but when it comes down to it, I get scared and I push them away. I become distant ...

I think my boyfriend might be gay! What signs should I look for?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - i am a bit worried about my boyfriend, as i think he is gay, been together 2 years and he tells me everyday that he loves me, he always wants sex with me most the time and he mainly makes the first moves, he kisses me alot and holds me all night, ...

Is he being fair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Hi there, I have a problem with my bf whom I met online last year. I'm 31 and he is 43. When we met he knew I had 2 kids, 1 who is 14 and the 18mths baby. The problem I have with my bf is he does not want my daughters father to be anywhere near his ...

Business disagreements vs. treating your partner well

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. We run a small business together, live together, and many of our friends and loved ones refer to us as married. We try to communicate well with each other, and we believe in complete trust, and ...

Was my teacher "attracted" to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* I'm just curious because I always took it as being nice, but now that I've graduated my friends keep telling me that he always had a bit more of a "soft spot" for me than any other student... oh, and I've been really close wi...

Should I just give up???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* i really like this guy. he has tons of friends and at least half of them are girls. he has a great personality and everyone likes him. i dont know if he has a girlfriend right now. i at least want to be his friend but he doesn...

He added the girl he cheated with as a friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Okay well my bf nd I have been together for 3yrs...Within one of the yrs he cheated on me with this girl from where he lives..But I cheated on him within that time too...Well he had jus added her as a friend on myspace...When I seen it I flip out..I ...

I want to have oral sex, she doesn't, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now. We have a very good sex life and I've always been (and still am) extremely attracted to her. The only problem is, she won't EVER let me go down on her. I have been trying since the day ...

Should I take the chance with her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - Ok, here is the story. My buddy has been in a long distance relationship for about 2 years with a girl from different state and he has never meet her. In total the distance is 700 miles!!! She is 15 and he is now 19. At first i thought he was nuts ...

I feel that I am not good enough, how do I stop that feeling??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about five months now. We have gone through a lot that I believe most couples wouldn't have in such a time frame. I have a history of being hurt by men and I find it hard to trust although I do trust my boyf...

My boyfriend cheated, had a child, I don't want to be a part of the child's life, am I wrong??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and last year cheated on me with another girl and got her pregnant.I decided to stay with him and told him that i understand that he has to be in the childs life, but I told him that he can count me ...

Should I worry about him watching youtube's big ghetto booty shaking??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Ive been with my bf 10yrs....we were supposed to get married this year. He lives in San Diego. ..they just moved like1 yrs ago. .they bought a business as a family. ...n in Nov I went to India. N during my vacation. ..he was busy taking care of his ...

At 18 his father took them to a prostitute, I can't seem to get over that??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Im not looking so much for an answer as advice from people who have maybe been in a similar situation. My bf and i have been together almost a year now, in that time i found out he had slept with a prostitute, before he was with me. I find this ...

We aren't we having sex as often as I'd like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months and we're both 18, but our sex life is just no more really. we only do it every so often, but i want more. we love eachother so i dont understand why we dont do it any more :( can someone help me please :...

I've had a crush on her for years, but don't know if I should pursue a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - Let me start at the begining. 5 years ago I was working at a local grocery store. I start walking down one of the isles and I spot a young girl that I, for some reason, can't take my eyes off. From that day on for about two years she comes in and ...