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Dating: Help and advice

I really like her and want this to work but I'm afraid I'm going to lose her over the summer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5068 days ago

10 June 2010 (M) - Hi I met this Great Women on a Online Dating Site She is a Britsh Aupair in NYC We tlked online on facebook and on the Phone We both like each other and agreed to met and date. We been on three dates and we are dateing for the rest this month and ...

The man who's too perfect, or the man who's not perfect enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - I have a huge problem. I have to choose between my boyfriend, and my ex. I love both of them and i dont know who to go with. I broke up with my ex because i thought it wasn't working, but am now realizing that im missing him terribly. But, i dont ...

Can someone help me figure this out... does he want to break up with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is always saying i need a better guy and that i dont deserve him and that he's a bad guy and doesnt want me to get in trouble but he also always says he loves me and misses me and hes so sweet and i dont want to leave him but im ...

Is there a right way to have phone sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - Hey, well im worried about tonight, my boyfriend likes me to be on the phone with him when i masturbate so he can hear. I dont mind it at all and we have done it once before. But last time we did i was really self conscious about the way i would ...

How do I avoid getting hit on when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - So, it doesn't happen often, but sometimes guys come up to me when I'm in a public place like a coffee shop or park by myself. Usually I'm reading a book or something but that doesn't really stop them from trying to talk to me. No one has ever ...

How can he just leave me in this situation and throw me to the wolves when he is supposed to love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - dear cupid, i cannot find work and haven't been able to in four months. my boyfriend makes 180,000.00/yr., is selling his house from his past marriage, but because his ex-wife is putting such a financial strain on him and he spent so much money da...

What is a normal amount of sex for a relationship and why can't he stay hard?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - dear cupid, my boyfriend and i have been together six months and at first, he explained that he left his wife because there was no sexual attraction anymore, that she had gained a lot of weight, didn't care about herself, and as a result, when the...

Do you think he'll really come back to me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's grandpa is dying so he told me he wants to be alone and said it is over. What should I do ? He said he would come back when all the family crap is done... But I miss him so much....

Help! How can I get my parents to accept him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - Just as the topic applies, could you? I'm 23, I have a bachelors in Marketing, going back to get my Masters next year. I make decent money--have my own car, my own place, my own bills, plus splurging money. I come from a wealthy background of ed...

How do you understand mixed messages?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - Ok, I need some advice. What is it about guys? Can you not just say what you want?! How do you interpret and understand all the mixed messages and tell if a guy really likes you or not. Are we just friends, do you want more? Why cant guys jus...

Is he too "big" for me or do I just have to get used to his size?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, thanks for reading! this is my first post here. so im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been together for about 3 months. we have had sex 2 times together. well in the past ive been with 2 other guys. both were boyfriends. i have had ...

I seem to be unable to climax through vaginal intercourse. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - I seem to be unable to climax through vaginal intercourse. When my boyfriend goes down on me or when he plays with my clit I'm fine but when we have sex I cant seem to come. I've been with a few men and I've had the same problem with all of them, I'...

He's sooooooooo mean!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for five years; to make the long story short after long bickering and fights on i want space i want to hang out with my friends blah blah.. he ends the relationship.. he tells me that he is sorry that he caused so much ...

Lost my sex drive. Why and what can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - I no longer have a sex drive. It's horrible. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and at first we'd have sex at least 3 times a night on a weekend (We only see each other on weekends really cos' of College and University.) but ...

Family dating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

10 June 2010 (M) - ok, i'm 19 and my cousin just turned 18. since the day i hit puberty and started noticing girls, i have been in love with her. i'm pretty sure she doesn't feel the same about me. to me, she's the most beautiful thing i have ever seen. it's not that ...

What is this person after???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (M) - Hello this is just a bit of an update of a development of a question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-please-interpret-this-girls-behavior.html basically I left for canada and then returned to Seattle, well basically me B and S went ...

How can I let him know his porn watching is hurtful to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - dear cupid, i have been living with and only dating my boyfriend for six months, so we really jumped into our relationship too fast. after about two months, he wanted to watch porn while having sex. my ex husband, unfortunately, ruined the expe...

Why can't she leave him for a better life with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (M) - Ok. This girl I'm in love with, has a bf. She's with him for 5 years already. While with him she started to have feelings for me. But, she has hurt quite a few times because she'll ask me to move on a few days after confessing her feelings for me a...

I don't know if he will ever want to be boyfriend/girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - This will be long sorry... I have been spending a lot of time with this guy from college we do the same subject and we will be flat mates from september so i will see him a lot! From the start of the year we were attracted to eachother but took a l...

I need help with the aftermath

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, Would you please tell me what I can do next time? I screwed up royally, and all I can do is to learn from my awful mistakes, however painful that may be. Please take time to read my long story. Thank you. I am a twenty year o...

Is she losing interest in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

10 June 2010 (M) - I've been dating this girl for almost a month, not a long time. The other night we had a serious talk, namely that she hasn't really date many people, and they they have all turned into long term relationships, and second that she is worried she ...

Engaged but still have the single male mentallity, Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

10 June 2010 (M) - Hello people, I'm 24 year old male engaged to my beautiful finance of 21 of age. Ok the question is why is it that when I see other females I get attracted so fast and a lot of sexual thoughts run through my head? I know its wrong but its something ...

Shouldn't he be the one making plans?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - About a year ago, I started seeing this guy over the summer. Long story short, after about a month of seeing each other (and not being too serious) his ex came back into the picture. He ended things with me to see his ex. After about a week, his ex ...

What if everything he said was a lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm 20 years old and i know that I am young and I know that there is lots of fish in the sea. Someone great told me that you'll know when you first meet someone that they are the right one for you, that you just know. I have talked and dated ...

Why don't I attract the right type of females?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

10 June 2010 (M) - I seem to have run across a few questions. I need some female opinions on these... Not to boast about myself (I am quiet humble actually) but I am always refer d to as a "nice guy". I put the feelings and well being of anyone in front of me an...

How do we split bills in this kind of situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - How do we split bills in this one of a kind situation? I am in my 40's, female, and currently own a business, pay a mortgage on my home, and support 3 kids. The business is steady in the last year but not nearly as profitable as it once was. I d...

Now that we've graduated , my days are limited to find out if anything could happen between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, Well, I do not kow how to start.I am a smart good looking girl. The guy I like is not my type but he is smart too. We take the same program and he was in my class. I realized that I like him during my second year. He used to look at ...

I chose her over my boyfriend and now I'm open to getting hurt, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - My friend and I have been close since sixth grade. In eighth grade I found out I was bi. She figured out she was too. I fell for her hard and she told me she liked me too, but I have a boyfriend who loves me. I had to choose between the two, and ...

First boyfriend is saying he loves me, but is he trying to get back at his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - I have never had luck in relationships. What I mean is that before today I had never been asked out. All my friends brag about their boyfriends, and what was I supposed to say? Anyways, a guy I have had a crush on asked me out and I said yes. He ...

How do I go about contacting my absent boyfriend, I think I'm pregnant again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I havent seen each other in a little over a month, maybe more. I don't know why he just disappeared the way he did. Before all of this I had lost his baby and he began to act weird after, a few weeks after I lost the baby we were ...

Should we try an "open relationship"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We're each other's first everything and we're quite a great couple, if I do say so myself :). We're incredibly honest with each other and discuss EVERYTHING. Like who we find attractive, possible ...

Why did he lead me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - i just got out of a relationship for a yr and a half, we have been having problems for a while. I started talking to somebody else about a week before i broke it off with my bf and i ended up cheating on him with this person. We talked for about two ...

Do you think a person is being too picky and missing out, or should they embrace singlehood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - So, when do you realize you're just picky and when do you realize you're better off alone? I've never been able to stay in a long term relationship because I'll bail for reasons I think are completely legitimate. However, my friends are n...

How do I fight for love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - ok so I was seeing this man for about 9 months. We never planned on having feelings for each other or dating...we were just looking for sex. We had amazing sex, the best i've ever had. I was going through a divorce and he had a girlfriend that he ...

I don't want this relationship to end due to distance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - I am very much in love with my boyfriend, and he is in love with me. We've been together for over a year and in a few months I will be leaving for college. I'll be attending a university in New York City, only a few hours away from where we live. He ...

Why would my guy friend make out with me while I was trying to hook him up with a another friend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - I recently made friends with this incredibly nice guy who is one of my clients at my work. He explains to me that he's had no luck in the L.A. dating scene and so being the nice girl that I am, I suggested that he should date one of my other ...

Exboyfriend interested in the physical, current boyfriend doesn't seem to mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - I have an ex- boyfriend who is still interested in me for the physical stuff. We fell asleep together and he told me that it felt right. Im confused, plus i have a new boyfriend right now. I told my new boyfriend that i fell asleep with my old ...

How to start a conversation with this lovely lost boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - Dear cupid There is this boy in my computing class and we sit and the same table and i try everything to start a conversion with him sometimes hes up for a converstion but other times he totallys blanks me ! when we are on the computers i sit ...

Best friend's boyfriend likes me and I want to break up with my boyfriend but not end the sex part.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

10 June 2010 (F) - My best friends boyfriend told me that he likes me and that he wished he had met me before her. I have no idea what to do. I kind of have feelings for him but I don't know what to do about them. I don't want to mess up my friendship with her but I ...