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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone ive been sleeping with this guy on and off for a couple of months now and only once has cum and that was from a blow job, Anyway sorry to sound disgusting but last nite when having sex, he kept saying he wanted to cum inside me,and he was close, he keept saying it all the time but still nothing happened,then all of a sudden he stood up and said i need sleep and he didnt even cum, i actually said 2 him this time he didnt cum and he said yeah i no, and i actually asked him if i had done anything wrong, he said 2 me no your all good, ive had a couple of wanks earlier on.I once again went away feeling im not any good even tho other guys ive been with have had no problams lolshould i be consurned that he doesnt like me or just get on with it
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): If he's masturbating, that will lower his libido enough that cumming isn't as easy. He may also be stressed or preoccupied with other thoughts that are preventing that "focus" that results in an orgasm. Maybe switch up the antics...let him do somethign he has fantasized about that you guys maybe haven't done (talk dirty, anal, or just get more intense). But I'd find out why he's wanking so much. If I have a GF around who wants to have sex, I'm not wanking much at all.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (24 June 2010):
 This is a good article about it:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/physical_health/sexual_health/difficultyejaculating.shtml
On the bbc of all places!
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (24 June 2010):
 its him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 June 2010):
No, you'll find that it's him. If he had something on his mind, or wasn't comfortable, then it may just not have happened for him. It's not you at all. It's him. But I'm sure he knows this and he's trying to deal with it. Plus, he said he liked being with you. And to top it off he'd already pleasured himself several times before. A man can only take so much before he needs time off.
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