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Strange relaionship with my ex-teacher...how to explain her behaviour?

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Question - (24 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 June 2010)
A female Slovakia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

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Well...my story is quite long but... I am one of the happier people who once fell in love with their teacher. I am a woman, my ex-teacher is a woman too, 30 years older, so in fact she should be more mature than me. And yes, she really is but...

In our relationship there is no problem with the fact that I loved her, because I found the courage and told. It took us 3 or 4 months to make the things right again, but well...seems I am a child of fortune.

And the problem. I am pretty sure she has always loved me by some kind of unique and special love. But she never told me anything. She always tells me: "Hey, my dear, when we see each other next time? Call me next month." And I always do call or send a message. But there are times I need to get ring from her. She claims: "Yeah, I will call ya." But she never does. Therefor I feel like an idiot.

I asked her few times and always tell: "If you don´t want to, we don´t have to be together." She always wants,but if she have to make the first step,it never comes.

I tried to talk to her about it,but she almost cried and claimed: "It´s not the way you see it". But I don´t know how to see it. I´ve got my pride, just like her. I am afraid she isn´t just brave enough to tell me I´ve got let her go. Even though I am completly sure she would be sad if I do it.

I am fully confused. Please, give me advice how can I read her behaviour??? Just the different types of views.

Thank you all very much,

Love

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010):

All I can say is it sounds like she is stringing you along a bit, she knows how you feel and that you will be there if she needs you but she isn't there for you.

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