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writes:I am currently dating a guy who i have known since high school and that i was friends with for a while. Hes older than me hes 24 im 19 and i know even though i am young that i am a very mature for my age. he asked me for my number while i was at work one day because he wanted to reconnect since we havent seen each other in a few years. So i gave it to him and he came to my house and we watched movies and hung out. My mom met him and really liked him so i assumed o yeah points for me. I have always had a crush on him so it was cool. But he always wants privacy with me to talk cuz he gets nervous infront of my mom and he likes to be alone with me. He says kissing me and cuddling me infrnt of her is disrespectful. But even then i have been with him and seen him almost every day. Its been a month and we have ended up having sex now and now he wants it everyday even tho i dont. he says he wants to be with me but how do i know for sure?
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (2 February 2010):
well if he wants sex everyday and you dont then you should tell him you dont want it everyday though why you would not i dont know cause i would but i dont think he is using you at all
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 A few points I would consider is:
Does he listen to my feelings? Is he able to be empathetic with me? Could he offer valuable advice to my life? If I call him for help, would he come without hesitation? How were his relationships with his exes? How is his relationship with his parents and friends? Does he appreciate women? What does he like about women? Is he interested to know more about you, mind, body, heart and soul? Does he make sure you are happy with him every time? Sex would only be satisfying if two people are connected in many aspects. If he seems to be only interested in sex at first don't condemn him so quickly. Maybe you can inspire him what love is.
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reader, Mystery Girl +, writes (2 February 2010):
i'm sorry to say this but he is using u. trust me i've been through the same thing. The key parts that you mentioned were "Its been a month and we have ended up having sex now and now he wants it everyday even tho i dont. he says he wants to be with me but how do i know for sure?" -----that's big. it shows that he has no respect for how you feel. take it from someone who let things slide cause i thought it can't be true...
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