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writes:ive been single for 4 years now and its really starting to get to me, all my friends are dating and going out on coulpes dates and im getting left behind.im also completly usless when it comes to asking girls out or giving hints that i like them or picking up hints that they like me.and i dont just want to ask out loads of girls and seem desperatehow can i get a girlfriend?so any advice will be appreciated
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reader, LallaZine  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 When i saw the question I assumed that you were a lot older, then when I realised how old you are...I was thinking why is this guy so worried? You're still young and you've got your whole life ahead of you, dont worry too much, I know it's easier said than done. But when the right girl comes along you'll know. People say, when you're not looking for someone you like, they come along and when you are, they dont. There is some truth to that.
You dont have to ask 'loads of girls' out, but if you find someone you genuinely like, take the chance and ask her out. You know, it may even be the case that there is someone who likes you right now who is too shy to tell you and there's you worrying...maybe you need to change your attitude to relationships. If you're confident then girls will be attracted to you even more and you'll know it, trust me. When you find the girl you like and need advice on how to ask her out, just post it on this website and im sure someone will help you out.
Good luck in your future relationships
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reader, alexis**  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 aw dont focus on just that your single. im sure your a great person, so just be friendly to everyone. the more people yu get 2no, the more ppl you will get introduced2.just sit by someone who looks nice thats by their self, &dont think about who yu want2 be a future gf! we can tell...& just so ya no, its hard2 not fall for your best guy friend:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): i can understand the feeling of being left out or being left behind but you've already told yourself the problem, you dont ask out girls or drop hints.the problem is you dont try and in order to be noticed you should take some risks even if your shy this is the whole point of breaking out of your shell so get out there and flirt and be open but only to the point where your not looking desperate and i guarantee you a date!!!-sincerely christina
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