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How do I approach the first guy to tell him I've met someone else?

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Question - (2 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met someone about a month, saw him probably 3/4 times and text him a couple of times a week. Last time I saw him we were in a group and he pretty much ignored me all night then left without saying anything to me or anyone else. Because of that a bloke that he sort of knows came over, we started chatting and dancing and we kissed. He's since asked if I want to go out sometime, which I do, but he's said to me I need to speak to the first man first. I don't know what to tell the first one, how to approach it. I text him as he left asking if everything was ok and he's ignored that. Where can I go from here?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

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Turns out the first guy was an idiot anyway, when I finally did manage to speak to him he told me I was a pretty face and not much else! Thanks for your help :)

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (2 February 2010):

mizz.butterflies agony auntTell him to mind his own business and confront him about not talking to you when you were in the group. Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010):

I don't know why your worrying about what the first guy is going to think of you seeing someone else. Sorry to say but it seems he doesnt give a monkeys about you, constantly ignoring you. I would forget him and concentrate on your new guy.

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