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Archived questions from: 24 March, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it shallow to think physical attraction is important?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - How much weight do you put on physical attraction? I hear a lot of people say its shallow to think this is important, but is it really shallow? Don't we have to feel physical attraction for a relationship to be successful? Is it even fair to the one ...

She always seems to be 'busy' but should I push harder for a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - I met this girl in College and fell head over heels. We've been trying to go for a date for almost 3 months now but she keeps saying I'm really busy but we will have to find a day. I didn't want to come off desperate so I haven't pushed it very ...

She said she wanted to go on a date with me, but she keeps blowing me off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - My Question revolves around the meaning of the word date. I recently asked a girl on a date and she agreed very easily even sounding excited. The problem is she keeps blowing off the date saying that she is too busy but we should try for another ...

After I kiss a guy they all seem to back off!

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24 March 2008 (F) - After I kiss a guy they all seem to back off! Why is this? I also gt with a guy at a party the other night, he was reli gttin close and he came on to me. I added him on a chat thing, and he accepted bt hasnt spoken to me at all, I wnt to speak ...

Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....

This question has 198 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...

How do I get out of the friends catagory?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - I have know a girl for about 4 years now, we would occasionaly hav a bit of a fling and get some romance but we were never actualy together, im afraid that she has now put me into the friends catagory and i want to get out fast, i really hav ...

We keep getting back together even though the "mistrust" is still there....How do I cope with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Hi Just wondered.. If you had dated someone a year, it didnt work out, you kept arguing, so you ended it, found out they lied about something (not cheating though) Ended up mates after a couple of months then drifted back together, after a couple...

I hear rumours that he is dating me for the sake of experience, what am I to believe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Hello Guys, Girl of 15/16, I'm not a virgin but hey we all make mistakes. I've been seeing this lad, same age. lets say he's called Craig, well i really like him, but there are rumours going round that he only wants me to have the experience of ...

Is he genuinely trying to warn us about gossip or is he jealous in some way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Can someone explain to me what this guy's behavior means? There is someone at work that I really like and I've always felt there was "something" between us. I'd catch him looking over at me and occasionally at meetings we'd stare at each other, a...

If anyone could give me some insight to the inner workings of guys' minds, it'd be helpful!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Ever since I was in highschool, I've always been in longterm, monogomous relationships. But after my last relationship ended a few months ago, I decided that I didn't want to deal with all of the drama and heartache that boyfriends come with for a ...

How do I regain confidence in myself as a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend says that i appear to have lost confidence. The confidence that i had when we first met, that made her interested in me. Now i won't lie, this is the first, HEALTHY relationship i've been in years. my past 3 serious relationships ...

We are at opposite ends of the social scale and she doesn't like me that way...what can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - Ok, I like this girl, I told her, and shes fine with it. We are always talking and we sit with each other in some lessons. But we're from oppsite end of the social scale. Shes popular and, and i'm just in the middle. There's a big difference. ...

My partner calls me bad names like "Loser" and "Bitch", how do I deal with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I have been with my partner for 6 yrs now - we do not live together - i live with my children (18 and 22) and he lives with his son (age 19). We have talked about living together at some point, once he has recovered...

He said he'd never leave me but he just broke up with me....should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Well, I've been with this guy about 2 months and knew him about a year. 4 days ago he left me. He said that his feelings for me changed, he said at first he was really happy but then about a week ago he changed. He said that he didn't love me as ...

What do I do If I love my girlfriend, but don't like to be seen with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - I have been going out with my girl friend for sometime but the problem is that I love her alot but when I'm around other people I don't like to hold her hand, hug her or anything. I just don't like to be seen with her, although she is beautifu...

Am I being to particular...this guy is perfect but he smokes.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I've met the most fantastic fella: handsome, kind, intelligent and funny. I'd love to nave sex with him-but he smokes. Am I being too particular?...

Did I scare him off....was he really interested??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - So...I recently have become single. I have a much younger male as a friend (he's 22, I'm 42). We have known each other for a very long time. Since he has gained knowledge that I am "free" he's been acting a bit different. Very protective, flirty at ...

We want to spend our lives together but she isn't a Christian so we can't marry...what can I do??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - Hi, ive been going out with a girl for a while now and its obvious we are quite serious over each other. We have both hinted and spending our lives together in the future, but I have a problem... Thing is i'm a Christian and she isnt... and I ca...

I told him about my ex and sex and now things are not the same...what can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Okay everyone my problem is that im dating a very good guy. We are both 14 (no lectures please) i have a good head on my shoulders and same for him too. Our relationship has been the cute lovey-dovey type. However since i told him about an incident...

I have accused him of being unfaithful from the beginning but could it possibly by my past trust issues getting in the way??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 4 months now and I have accused him of being unfaithful from the very beginning.I don't have any concrete evidence but I think my past relationships trust issue have gotten me this way. He has stay around and endured ...

I have been single for three years as I am very anti-men. Is anybody else going through the same??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - hi, Hope you can help because i havent got a clue. I've been sinlge for the last three years and its all down to me. I get asked out on dates a lot but im just not interested; it feels like i hate men when i was speaking to my mom about she sa...

Why can't I get over that my girlfriend has had sex with other guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating off and on for the last 2 years, I'm 23 and shes 22. When I first met her she said she wouldn't do "anything" unless she was in a relationship, which kind of got us dating really fast. I had only had sex 2 t...

Can our relationshipship survive despite his depression?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I have been in a good relationship for 4 1/2 years and we planned to get engaged very soon, he's already bought the ring. It now comes to light that he is sufferring from depression due to stress and pressures from variuos areas of his life. We ...

How long am I to wait for him to make up his mind about living together? We're from different countries.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we were moving in together (he lives in a different country). Last week he send me an email telling me that he was scared and not sure about the step that we were going to take, we decided to postpone the ...

Do you think he could be gay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (?) - I have been seeing a great guy for a year now and absoloutely love him to death, however, sex has never gotten off the ground, we have obviously tried it a lot but either it is over and one with before its begun or it just doesnt happen. We get on ...

His female best friend has a hold over him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - My Fiancé and I have been together for four years and from day one I have had a problem with his female best friend. I'm not normally a jealous person and he has other female friends and i've hated myself for being so bothered by her. I've tried ...

Does 'I'm not ready to be in a relationship' really mean 'I want to have sex with as many girls as I can?'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - My bf of 2 months just broke up with me. I am confused as to why. After a week of acting very weird, he sent me a message to my phone saying he doesnt want to be in a relationship at the moment, hes not ready and that hes sorry and hopes we can ...

My BF constantly preaches at me to point out the wrongness of my religious beliefs!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is deeply religious and raised in the christian church. i however was raised by an deist (that god does not play a part in the outcome of your lifes events) parent and a catholic parent. i chose to take the deist route. my boyf...

Do we really love each other or is it just the Joy Of Text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have only been going out for 6 weeks but it all started with texting. i met him through someone i was decently good friends with and i had liked him. but then i met this new guy [current boyfriend] and we were "talking" and had ...

Help! I like my boyfriends friend and he kind of likes me too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Hello everyone I am a female who needs a lot of help it seems like every time I ask someone what 2 do they give me differnt answers I have a boyfriend who I been going out with for 3 years and I like his friend they are always together. His frie...

I am 20 years old and I've never had a boyfriend where did I go wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - ok im twenty years old and ive never had a boyfriend. sometimes i feel like such a freak.. i kissed a guy i really liked (when i was 18) but pulled away each time he used tongue because i was afraid to be a bad kisser. im a people person, very ...

How can I get comfortable in this situation and advance our feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, So, I really like my this girl that my brother is friends with. She's cute and funny and everything that I could want in a girl. However, she's a few years younger and just a sophomore in college, where as I graduated last y...

Does he really like me? He is with me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Hi, Well here is my question..... How do i know if this guy really likes me or not? He says he does but i just don't know. I really like this guy, we have been hanging out everynight for about 2 months now, we have made love, but there is jus...

Have you ever felt this way? I count the hours till my boyfriend calls...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 March 2008 (?) - lately I've been relaizing that I'm only happy when I'm talking to my boyfriend or maybe it's just that I'm only that level of happy when I'm talking to him. is that normal? like for instance every night he calls me around 9-11 pm and I find mys...

She wants to take it slowly so what's the next step for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - Here's the full story: I met a girl at a party a few weeks back, we spent practically the whole night talking, but my timing was wrong when i asked for a kiss and it didnt happen. We then spent a long time talking a week later at another party an...

How can I be funny for her wiithout feeling stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - hi I know girls like a kind and funny guy how can i be funny with out looking stupid ? i like this girl and i think she likes me to, i would like to ask her out, but i think she would say no because we dont know each other very well how ca...

Could I date ex's mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - hi i need some advice, me and my ex girlfriend broke up last year, my ex gf best mate and my best mate was going out but my mate dumped her for my ex gf, i have fallen for my ex gf s best mate she is so kind and careing and pretty i helped ...