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Archived questions from: 11 March, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't do oral, and I get embarrassed. But are there any more exciting alternatives, or ways to spice things up so that I can help him more without giving in to sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I really love my boyfriend. And he really loves me. But he is more experienced than me. He is used to sex, and I'm not ready for that step. He is a good guy and understands that, but some days it is harder for him to not have more. I don't do oral, ...

A couple of questions about sex for you...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I've been dating me boyfriend for three years and two of those years we have been having sex, But I have never done it on top! To be honest I'm a little scared to and I'm not sure how to do it. So I have two questions, How do I give by boyfriend ...

I've met someone else during the time my BF was in jail, but this person is much older, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - i'm 19 and my boyfriend is 29, well me and him haven't really been getting along for the past year or so, he left me, ditched me and has no legittimate excuse for the reason why he's gone,well now he's in jail for about 1 month and half, during that ...

Should I still pursue this guy as I had a REALLY good time or just leave him alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I've been flirting with a guy for several months and we finally were able to meet for sex. We have both been eager but nervous to get together, as we are both sort of shy and reserved. It ended up that he could not get it up, but gave me some ...

I'm scared we're drifting...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I met my 51 year old partner (I am 22) on-line and now we are living together. Now I feel he is more concerned with himself and makes it clear it won't affect him if we split up. Yet we are engaged. He is disabled and used to living on his own ...

It's not you... It's me?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - After dating a guy for a month, having a blast together and talking about future dates and fun plans together... I had a "bad day" at work and was really quiet while spending time with him that evening and it upset him in the long run - ...

How can I meet other girls and how should I approach them??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I am a bisexual girl and would like to meet a girl. I hung out in alot of the lesbian bars for a long time but I am not attracted to those girls there are they are mainly butch looking, not to mention that it is always the same old crowd that go to ...

She says she fancies me but wont go out with me...what should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

11 March 2008 (M) - There is this girl who has told me she fancy me, i and i really fancy her but she wont go out with me. I have asked her out and she said no. What should i do??...

Is infidelity genetic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has confided in me that his dad cheated on his mom while they were married and that was the cause of their divorce. My question is, is my boyfriend more likely to cheat on me in the future because he has been exposed to and influence ...

My ex-girlfriend split with me after 6 years and I am very low

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

11 March 2008 (M) - Hi all, Well, where do I start. Let me give you some background information. I was with my ex-girlfriend for over 6 years and she split with me last weekend, 1st March. It was her choice, we split as she thought we didn't feel right and...

Can a man have an affair and still be seeing the 'love of his life' ???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I'm in agony here. I am having a long distance relatioinship with a guy, for a year. We see each other 2 or 3 times a month. Last time I saw him, I found a movie ticket in his pocket for 27 dresses. After lying, he admitted he took his neighbor to ...

It bothers me that I haven't told my current boyfriend that I lost my virginity to my ex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend who I later caught cheating on me.. I am now in a new relationship and I haven't told him about sleeping with my ex... He is quite orthodox and I don't think he can live with that... I have been open to him ...

We've been together 2 months and he's cheated on me. How do I know for sure he won't do this again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - Recently my boyfriend admited that he cheated on me. I forgave him after a period of time. Up to now I am not having any trust issues but I am worried that it may happen again we have only been together for 2 months but I really like him and I think ...

He has to work at getting an erection with me yet he gets one no problem when he looks at other women. Should I be worried?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - Most of the time my boyfriend has to work at getting an erection so we can have sex. He tells me that I turn him on but he has also told me that if he checks out another woman and is turned on by what he sees, he gets an erection quickly. Is this ...

Ever since my girlfriend's night out she's been receiving text messages from another guy.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

11 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend (age 34) went out to a nightclub with her girlfriend the other night. Since she returned she has not stopped receiving text messages. I finally did the unthinkable and pinched her cellphone and took a look. Sure enough, there is...

Should I tell him my true age before the situation turns more complicated? I'm not 16 just yet.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - So i have a pretty minior problem. First off i am 15, (turning 16 in may) and the guy i am talking too is 18 (turning 19 in may also) we have kissed once or twice, and we talk constantly. he wants to take me out on a date, and seems pretty honest ...

I slept with my ex, do I tell my fiance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I slept with my ex bf..bt i still haven't told my finance that I did. He is open minded but we come from traditional backgrounds and I don't think he will accept that..what should I do? ...

I'm falling for my friend's husband...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I need help! I started working with this girl about two years ago we don't work together anymore but we hang out. But I have a problem, I'm falling for her husband! He's super sweet guy and very sexy. We flirt quit a bit and when we have been ...

We broke up, I want her back but she won't give me a straight answer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (M) - Dear Relationship Advisor, I've got a big problem and was wondering if you could help. But its kind of a long story so bear with me. A few years ago I met a really nice and fun girl. I was immediately attracted to her because of her ...

My boyfriend is paranoid and possessive but he kissed someone else, do I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - Im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together just over two months. He's very paranoid and i've had to stop talking to a few guy mates as he's got so worked up about it and its caused arguements. Anyway a few days ago he came to me in tears an...

How do I tell my parents I love someone they don't like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - i relly like this boy and we knew eachother for 4 years. he likes me too.... we started to date and my brother found out told my mom n dad so now they dont like him. they wont let me date him cuz he half n half n i am white. we talk behind there ...

When a guy apologises, does he mean it and does he care about you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - when a guy says sorry for hurt feelings, does that mean he cares about you?...

I treat my partners so good and they always cheat - will my current partner cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - ok i was with a guy for almost 3 years then i found out he was cheatin on me with his bestfriends sister after he asked me to marry him now im curently wit a girl and i love her so much i never thought i would give my curious thoughts a chance now ...

Is my boyfriend gay? Do I test him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - Ok im goin out with a guy who is really sweet and is always hyper.................well a few days ago my friend told me that when they asked him to go out with me he told them he was gay!!!! and so now idk wut to do.......should i test him? cuz i ...

I've lied to a man I really love, and now I feel bad. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I've just divorced my husband. We have been married for 20 years. My husband is selfish and unkind. I stay for the security. He made me feel unattractive so I started to cheat on him. It didnt make me feel better but just feel guilty and cheap. ...

How can I start a casual conversation, and is it really a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - There is this guy hes my friend that i hang out with and i like him. but heres the problem he has been out with my friend and one of my other friends like him. Hes invited me over to his house what do o do to make a casual conversation so that we ...

My BF's roommate suggested spending the night together, should I tell my partner this happened or simply ignore it?

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11 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is out of town working for 2 weeks. His roommate (whom I know because I have been to their house many times) came into the restaurant where I bartend. He then proceeded to get drunk and start hitting on me. He asked me to come over ...

She complains I don't display desirable masculinity...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

11 March 2008 (M) - I don't know how to be "the man" for my girlfriend. She complains that I'm not masculine enough for her. One example: Her managers at work hit on her often, even as far as buying her gifts. I want to do something about it, but I have no idea how ...

My BF is in the army and will go on training courses, how will I know if he is, God forbid, in difficulty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - My bf of two years is in the army and goin on tour next month I am so worried and he has gone on training courses for the next 3 weeks so not sure when i'll get to see him again. He is away at the moment and i wanna ask him questions about ...

Should I apologise or is it a lost cause?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - Hi... I was seeing this guy over the summer who is at an Ivy league business school and I'm in art school so we're opposites. Anyway over the summer he took me out to some really nice dinners but I didn't act too interested. Then I realized I ...

My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex.

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex. I told my female friend this and she said "thats hot" Is this normal? Why do people like this?...

How can I tell him to keep his comments to himself without being nasty?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I get along with my new boyfriend ok but he is not religious. He says there is no point and that I have no freedom. This upsets me that he has no faith but I try to ignore the comments. He believes we came from monkeys I do not. He believes in stem ...

She says she loves me but her actions don't always show it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

11 March 2008 (?) - Right now my girlfriend is studying abroad over in England. Our relationship started out as, and has always been, a distance relationship so that part isn't new. We have been going out for 11+ months. Right now I am having problems with wh...

I realy like this new guy I'm seeing but I think he might be having an affair with his friend's wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I realy like this new guy I'm seeing but I think he might be having an affair with his friend's wife. He talks to her and emails her more than he talks to me and when he says he is going to thier house he says her name not her husbands who he knew ...

Why does he smell his fingers???

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we have had sex. I have given oral but not received it, which was more of my choice because of me being worried about smelling bad (even though I don't think I do). Lately, I've noticed that after ...

She's always studying and never seems to have time for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

11 March 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, My girlfriend and I have been dating for only a few weeks now, but we have been friends for 3 years. Well anyways, I like her a lot but often feel she doesn't have the time for me. She is in all honors courses and is always doing ...