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writes:Here's the full story:I met a girl at a party a few weeks back, we spent practically the whole night talking, but my timing was wrong when i asked for a kiss and it didnt happen. We then spent a long time talking a week later at another party and when we were on the couch she gave me the eyes and we kissed numerous times. Before i had to leave i gave her my number and said we should have dinner some time. Then she walked me out and we kissed some more as we said goodbye. She then messaged me a day or two later so i could have her number. When i asked about dinner she said that she felt dating was too much pressure and that she would like to be friends first and see where things go from there. I know she has been screwed over by guys in the past so i can understand the way she feels. i am just confused as to where i am supposed to go from here. Can you give me some advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): My advice is to text her . get to know her interest and then call her . talk to her just as a friend tell her the important stuff to know about you and ask her questions . If you still feel a connection after you get to know her better ask her to take it further but don't pressure her. ask her out to eat maybe even tell her it's just as friends make her feel comfortable . if you make her feel good she'll want to be around you more I promise. take it slow like she asks sand make sure your not forcing her to do anythign that she doesn't want to do. If you do this things should go well.
I hope this helped you and I hope everything works out with you two :)
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter  +, writes (24 March 2008):
It is early days, you have been forward and she has forgiven you by giving in to what you wanted at a later date which could have been very hard for her if she has been messed about.Ultimately the ball is in your court even if your choice is to give her the ball.If you think she is worth the wait then take things slowly and it may become something unforgetable or may become nothing. If it isnt worth taking slowly then you need to decide if it is all or nothing or not.
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