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writes:My Question revolves around the meaning of the word date. I recently asked a girl on a date and she agreed very easily even sounding excited. The problem is she keeps blowing off the date saying that she is too busy but we should try for another time. I'm starting to get the impression that this is because she thought I meant hang out as friends and that can wait and thats why she agreed so easily. It could be that she's not at all interested but I really get the feeling that she doesn't realize that I'd like to be more then friends. How can I communicate this to her without coming off too desperate? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (25 March 2008):
 This happened to me once. I went through the exact same things you're going through, but there was no Dear Cupid (no internet, mind you) back then. I also thought she didn't get that I was after her. The truth is she was aware of that very long before I even suggested a date. Women are just great at seeing your intentions. What she meant is "I don't want to date you". This has the virtue of being very clear.
Move on, man. You won't regret it.
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Regardless whether she wants to be friend or more, whether she understands what you mean by "date, or whether she think's you're desperate- this girl has very little respect for your time. She's too busy to be a friend or otherwise for whatever reason. Put your balls in your pocket, have some self respect, and date other girls who say what they mean.
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