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writes:Okay...here it is.. i know im young,but im positive i fell in love last year. i lied about my age, it lasted 2 days and he hates me now. i can't stop thinking about him and it hurts so much. i can't go on without closure. i miss so much it makes me feel sick. what should i do?!! please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): Love doesn't get built in 2 day or even two months. You sound like you're confusing "love" with a strong attraction. Not the same thing at all.
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 What Secret Teller said is right. Love isn't built on lies, it's built in trust, compromise, relience. Why did you lied to him about your age? Probably because you knew you wouldn't get him if you had lied some things about you. I'm sorry if this offends you, but I think you're too young to understant the concept of "falling in love". This is a very strong word and using it the way you use it sounds more like the cover of the textbook than the whole book itself. You just probably felt a strong crush for the person.
Now you're feeling miserable for a relationship of 2 days. How much did you really know about this boy? Do you know his last name, his past? his favorite hobby and color? his favorite food or word or phrase? his best memory? his worst? what he really feels about you? I bet most of the answers will be "no" and you should take this into introspective.
You should take this mistake as a lesson for your future relationships and try to not mess up as how you did here.
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reader, Secret Teller +, writes (13 July 2008):
 being in love is a powerful thing and it shouldn't be built on lies. you shouldn't of lied about your age, you shouldn't lie about anything in a relationship, because it only leads to trust issues. now about the recovering part i'm not sure of.
best of luck.
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