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If a guy who says he wants to stay single shows signs of liking someone, is he confused?

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Question - (13 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right if a guy around the age of 18-19 says he wants to stay single but he shows some signs of liking one of his friends does this mean hes confused or something? because surely if he'd chosen to stay single he wouldn't show signs of liking people so what would happen if he still believed in staying single but did like someone very much? would he be confused? is this why he'd show the signs?

Because well that kinda happened to me, in general conversation between us and a group of friends he said once that "its the way i am but i doesn't care if i stay single" and that was when he hadn't show that many signs but as time went on he showe more and more signs and used to stare at me alot and then cant rememeber what we were all talking about exactlly but he said "i'll never get a gf" then someone said why? and he said "just can't be doing with them, they tie you down" but even so that wasn't directed at me but he still showed signs he liked me the main one being he just used to stare at me loads and stuff so now im confused. So im sorta asking is he confused because he does want to stay single but does like me? By the way he has denyed liking me to two of our friends and did say to one of them he wants to stay single, however he still shows it. Confusing person!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

I have the same issue. Old friend protested his love, longtime crush to me. Asked if I would date him and says he's devoted to becoming part of my life. Then doesn't make time for me. Doesn't go out of his way the way someones who's crushing on you does. He knows I'm interested somewhat but wanted to see how he would act as time went. WTF now what?

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