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writes:I am 19 years old and i have a boyfriend. I find men attractive and i like having sex with them. My sex life is quite normal for my age and im only interested in dating men and pulling men and i always have been. The only thing is, i get off more on women than i do on men and i have recently been looking at lesbian porn on the internet. I am not a lesbian and if given the chnace to, i would definately not do anything with another woman as it would feel wrong and it would not turn me on.I am really confused and i dont know why i feel this way. I dont look at girls at all when im in town and i always care about which boy im going to pull next, etc. And why do i prefer watching women at it than men?
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reader, natalieejanex +, writes (12 February 2011):
 You aren't bi-curious. you're straight. all it is, is that its a sexual fantasy. you basically answered you're own question. you are only physically and emotionally attracted to guys and wouldn't ever be emotionally attracted to a women therefore you wouldn't date the same gender, making you straight. straight people can and do watch gay/lesbian porn, its fine, its normal, its what gets you off. so what? it doesn't make you bi-curious, bi or lesbian. being gay/bi is not just about sex and the physicality of it. to be bi or gay you have to be emotionally attracted to the same gender, porn nor does sex change your sexuality. a lesbian can go and fuck a guy and not have any feelings for him, do that make her straight? no, it doesn't. people are mentally gay or mentally bisexual. same as people are mentally straight.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (17 January 2008):
 LOL hun dont worry you're like me,
you're
BICURIOUS
You are attracted to men, but you look up lesbian porn or sometimes fantasiseabout sex with a women yet you feel you coudn't actually go past that line and actually HAVE SEX with a woman
XD
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): I would say that you are just bi curious. I think you cross that line once you commit the act. I am a married woman with three kids and like to watch both hetero and that kind of stuff too but can never see myself doing it. Women have beautiful bodies and that's the way God made them. I bet there are alot of women out there who feel this way too. I wouldn't worry.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (17 January 2008):
 I'm fed up with this question, I go on this other site and we get it ALL THE TIME. Lots of straight women watch lesbian porn, it is not strange at all and quite normal really! I like watching gay porn, what does that make me??
You are not bi as you wouldn't sleep with an woman and you don't check them out in everyday life. Dont listen to red, keep watching the porn you like
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reader, red1982 +, writes (17 January 2008):
If you don't fancy women or fantasise about making love with a woman then I would say that you are not bi sexual. If you were then you would get turned on by the pornography you are watching and want to do it yourself.
I think you are probably just curious about what they do. Try not to watch it for a while and switch to heterosexual porn.
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