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*mootnezz
writes:I met a girl i had known sometime back after a long time of missing link. some how we got to know each other better and remained friends for about a month. Everything that went on between us clearly told me we were in love so i decided to propose love to her. To my surprise, she told me she was hooked, which i find very difficult to accept because i strongly feel she likes me too. After trying to convince her several times, her answer still remained the same. So i asked her whether she feels the same way about me. Her answer to this quetion was: "not really". i really love her and the trauma of losing her is really affecting my work. How can i know whether she is telling me the truth? Why could she be hiding her feelings from me? And what should i do next? Reply to this Question
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reader, smootnezz +, writes (20 February 2008):
smootnezz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much khan for your advice. I really appraciate it. i feel something has finally been lifted out of my life. thanks again for taking some time to answer my question. If I had your e-mail address, I really would want to be friends with you. Write to me (email) on here if you dont mind, I'd like that.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Pick up up those pieces of your life and go on living.She is not the one for you . You have to graciously accept her decision.Whether it is the truth or not , only she herself knows. Time will tell if she is telling the truth.
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reader, emad khan  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 If someone says they don't love you, don't try to read between the lines. I know
its difficult, but I think the best thing for you to do, is say good -by. No amount of logic, or discussion is going to make her change her mind...you simply have to move on and find another love, who shares the same feelings. And you will.
It will take time...but eventually you will love someone else, and that person will love you back. So my advice? Forget about this girl and move on...Put your mind on your work, and activities- have fun with your friends, spend time with your family, whatever takes your thoughts away from this woman. Eventually you'll find that youre no longer in love, and you'll be ready to move on-
Shes not hiding her feelings from you- she being honest...so move on!
And good luck.
EK
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