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*han14
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for a year and 8 months, but like 5 months ago he moved back to New Orleans. Ever since then I'v been upset because I've been hurt too many times in the past and afraid to get hurt again and we're starting to argue over the smallest things. He says he'll never hurt me because he loves me too much and that in the future he wants to marry me and have kids with me ect. I'm just scared he's going to leave me like everybody else did and I don't know what to do. Everybody says we're tot young to be in love but they don't understand everything i've been through and he's got problems too. I also get upset because of poor communication, like for instance when he used to stay up here and he said he'll call me back it'll only be for maybe 3 min. but now it's more like 2 hours or longer and he says it's not his fault because everyone wants hime to do chores and stuff.Sometime I feel as if I am nothing to him and at other times I feel i'm the most special person in his life.I'd like to be with him in the future but i'm scared he might fall in love with someone else and I'll still be in love with him. He says i'm the only girl he wants to be with, but I don't know about our future together. Any advice would help!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 Do not worry about the future. Nobody knows what will happen. Just leave the future to take care by itself. What ever happens will happen. We cannot do anything about the future.
We need to live for today. So just live from each day to another and enjoy and have fun.
Life is like a journey. Each day you are like on a train from your home town and your destination is Heaven. That is a pretty long journey and you have a long way to travel. Everyday ,you see new things and discover the fun from one place to another.
Enjoy your life , eat, sleep and have fun. Don't worry because your worries cannot change the future.
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