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I want this girl to date me! how do I ask her though?

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Question - (17 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ovelytony writes:

hiii my name is Tony and i need some help pleas, i am 17 years old from UK when i look at this web and i think that you are the one to help me :D

This is the problem, i had fancy a girl for about half a year now and i plan to ask her out on Valentine day, i bought her a card but i dnt no what should i write on it, can you please give me some advice and i planning to get her some flower aswell and what flower should i get ?? thanks alot Tony

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (18 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntTo,

M/s. Susan(Your g/f's name)

"Wishing you a Happy Valentine's Day "

Will you be my valentine!

From

Tony

Flowers, mostly red roses or ask the florist.

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (18 January 2008):

SamuraiRick agony auntBefore you do any of all that gift giving you have to TALK to the girl. Get into a conversation with her...and somewhere along the line ask her for her PHONE NUMBER. After that you talk to her more....and then you ask her out. That's how its done ususlly...usually. You can always be creative if you will to get her attention. But here's the problem with gift giving when the girl doesnt know you that well...it can creep her out and turn her away from you...a negative effect you don't want.

So my advice is to take it slow. One step after another. Conversation...phone number...call back...date...then gifts. Don't try to move too fast. And don't put a circle that Valentine's day on the calendar until you have least done something to connect to her.

Good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008):

Write: "Dear so and so, Will you be my valentine?" And buy her pink carnations.

And if you want to ask her out, tell her in person. Say something like " Do you want to go out sometime, maybe on Valentines day??" See what she says.

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