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Should I butt out and let them get on with it? I don't want to lose a good friend.

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Question - (17 January 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female , *ngelbbabe7490 writes:

Over the weekend me and my friends went out to a party and met these boys from Long Island. Us girls live in Connecticut which is about a hour and a half drive from where the boys live. We all had a fun time and eventually me, my sister, and my best friend Angie took a liking to one of the boys in particular. Luke got all of our numbers that night and continued to text us the next morning. I met up with him at the mall becuase I had to bring my sister to work over there. He brought some of his buddies and told me that i should tell my friend to meet us there so that his friends won't be bored. He texted me before the mall saying he couldnt wait to see me and that he was soo happy that he had met me.

At the mall he seemed to be dominant over his friends. Whenever they tryed to talk to me, he would get in the way and take my attention. I realized that he was interested in me and in a way, I started liking him too. Angie shows up at the mall about 2 hours later with my other friend. After the mall Luke continued texting me, and Angie.

I soon had realized that he had texted us some of the same exact things. The boys went back home to Long Island but Luke decided to come back 3 days later. Last night he went out to eat with Angie and it upset me because i told Angie that i was also interested in him. What got to me the most was the fact that she would betray me. Today in school was awkward because i didn't walk with her in the halls and i basically ignored her. i wrote her a poem on how i felt and i gave it to her. Luke texted me today apoligizing for unintentionally leading me on.

It turns out that Angie told him that she doesnt think that they should talk anymore. I know that she is really starting to like him, and he told me that Angie is great.In a way, I want her to be happy and with him. But then, I also feel that if she was to continue talking to him, I would be left disapointed and we would soon drift away from each other. I told Luke that i dont want to get in the way of them and he said that he doesnt want us fighting over him.

Honestly, i think that fighting over a boy is pointless. I've been friends with Angie since the 5th grade. My friends think that none of us should like him as more than a friend. I do not want to continue talking to him because I know that I could do better than him. He probably talks to a number of girls in Long Island as well. Should i just butt out of this whole situation and let Angie and Luke see each other? How do you feel about my situation?

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