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BF of a year doesn't love me or think he ever can and prefers his ex.

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Question - (17 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *inkcat writes:

OK a shorter version of my 'boring' one...my bf loved me once many months ago but doesn't now and doesn't think he ever can - or anyone else supposedly - yet having been with me over a year still prefers his ex (who dumped him). He's a good bf, but only to a point, after which the limit to his feelings show. Advice please?

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (18 January 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

you are 18-21 , and you are still with this guy because?

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2008):

dapone 1 agony auntHi pinkcat

I am sorry to say that he is a lost cause, if he is still hanging onto his ex after a year with you, then you are totally wasting your time with him,you deserve a lot better from a relationship than hanging around with this looser, do you not think that you deserve a better relationship than the one you have right now, come on babe give him up, and find someone who will love you, and find a guy who will be with you, and not one who live in a past fantasy, get out there girl there are loads of guys who would rather be with you and love you for who you are, do not waste another second of your life on this guy, he aint worth it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008):

My advice: Stop wasting your time & emotions on a guy who does not love you, and openly admits that he never will. Also if he prefers anyone to you, an ex or not, you need to get some self respect and tell him to get lost.

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