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writes:Ok so im 21 years old and have been seeing this guy who is actually alot older then me he is 38, it started out just hanging out and having alot of fun well now we are sleeping together and i stay at his house alot. Well i really really like him now and would like to start a serious relationship and asked him if he would like to continue in our relationship and he said that he was not sure, he liked me and cared about me but that i was young. and didnt know what i wanted, what do i do. i want to continue seeing him though Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 Sit him down and talk things through. Suppose you've given him enough time? It's you who now needs to decide whether or not you want this. He can't keep putting this off. It seems like he is just stringing you along, then whimpering at any sign of commitment. You don't want something like that. You want a man! Good Luck.
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reader, CRose87 +, writes (27 August 2008):
CRose87 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk so My guy left for a week and went to mexico with his friends well the night before he left we spend a pretty sweet night together we had a great time i helped him packed we relaxed and cuddled i thought everything was great and he wanted me to stay the night with him so i said i would and he always sleeps with his arm or his leg around me well this night i was laying on his chest and i brought up me wanting to be in a relationship with him and asked him why he dated his previous girl and he said she was older i laughed she is only a year and a half older. well he came back from mexico and everything has been so weird i really want to be with him and im hurting what do i do?
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reader, LonelyButNotAlone +, writes (20 August 2008):
 I agree with Ms.LoveDoctor. Give him some time. There are lots of things to consider when you're in a relationship with partners with large age disparity. Particularly when it comes to differing activity levels, lifestyles, as well as needs and goals.
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reader, Ms.LoveDoctor +, writes (20 August 2008):
I think the best thing for you to do is give him some time to think this through. There might also be some pressure on him about the fact he is dating someone younger than him. You're still young, get to know each other better before you take the relationship any further and think about he consequences you might face if you decide to take the next step.
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