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Why does he tell me he loves me to then only ignore me?

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Question - (20 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *onfusedxx writes:

ok heres the story, i have been going with this guy for the past 18 months, i very much love him, more than i have loved anybody, but in the past we have both done things 2 hurt each other, we both have cheated on each other, and we split up for about 8 months and just recently got back together. things have been going reali well, but he never talks about how he feels, i kno deep down that he does have strong feelings for me but doesnt want to show them. we were out together on sat nite and when he was drunk he basically poured his heart out to me, he told me he loved me and that he wanted to make a go of things but in the past he had been badly hurt by another girl and thats why he is has been distant because he is scared of getting hurt again, he was so nice 2 me on sat nite, holding my hand and telling me he loved me and it was so nice to finali hear him tell me how he felt about me. however since the wkend i havent heard from him, i have txted him but have had no reply, at the min he is working in another county and is onli home every 2 weeks so i kno he is working at the min. however it is really frying my head how he could tell me all these things at the wkend how he loved me and all and now he is just ignoring me, i just dont know what to think

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008):

ignore him back.. hell get the picture and wonder what happen to her.

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