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Why wont my boyfriend kiss me when I go to visit him in Prison?

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Question - (20 August 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *shlea writes:

I'm 16 + my boyfriend is 17, he's still a virgin. Its not that which i am confused about. He's in prison + when i go to see him + ask him for a kiss he simply laughs + tells me that im not gettin 1. He's only ever kissed 1 girl. Why doesnt he want to kiss me? Please help, reply a.s.a.p x

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A female reader, ashlea United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2008):

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thanks everyone for helping, i will try to give him a kiss on the cheek b4 i go :) uve all helped me loads, but when u ask me why im wastin my emmotions on him, its cause i love him ( sounds soppy i know) but i really do. hes not done somethignreally bad + yeah hes out soon. thanks for your help everyone especially; a new start + diovan lestat.

he will give me affection + hugs + that and i can understand what u all mean, cause we both miss + love eachother loads :). thanks again x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008):

He's in bloody prision... It's embarrasing for him enough to have seeing him like that. Guys laugh at other guys for showing emotions, he's trying to be a strong and hard man. You want him to kiss you and then he gets turned on, what's he supposed to do next. He's missing you, he's missing your kissing, but he's in jail, people are watching him, he's just trying to survive untill he gets out. He wants to keep his pride, he dosen't want you driving him mad, you keep asking for your kisses, it shows how much you miss him, but please don't get upset when he can't show you how he feels... Blessings to both of you, I hope he hasn't done anything to bad and he gets out soon...

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (20 August 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntHe won't even give you affection - why are you wasting emotional energy on this guy who's stuck in jail? He obviously did something bad to get in there, and now he doesn't even appreciate your loyalty to him while he's in the clink. Well, ditch that guy. He's a loser and a criminal. Tell him he can kiss your ass goodbye!!

xx India

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A male reader, A-New-Start United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2008):

hey, im not 100% sure if this is right but i think he will be too scared to kiss you, he may not have like any skills on how to kiss a girl and he is worried you will think badly of him if he cant kiss, i have the same problem, i cant pull any girl because i have no skills or any idea how.

i think you should try making the move and kiss him on the cheek before you go and things and eventually he will kiss you.

i hope this helps :)

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A female reader, les United States +, writes (20 August 2008):

I think the real question that needs to be addressed here is not why your boyfriend doesnt want to kiss you, its WHY YOUR DATING SOMEONE WHO'S IN PRISON!

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A male reader, A-New-Start United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2008):

hey, im not 100% sure if this is right but i think he will be too scared to kiss you, he may not have like any skills on how to kiss a girl and he is worried you will think badly of him if he cant kiss, i have the same problem, i cant pull any girl because i have no skills or any idea how.

i think you should try making the move and kiss him on the cheek before you go and things and eventually he will kiss you.

i hope this helps :)

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