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He cheats and I don't trust him but should we get back together? Will I be hurt again?

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Question - (17 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

me and my ex have been texting and meeting for about a year and only recently we've got together, we were together a week then broke up, i finished it because we argue way to much and its complicated between us. i havent seen or thought of him since and i seen him couple of days ago and since then we havent stopped texting again, hes asked me to get back but i dont know what to do, evryone tells me that we suit but i dont think i have feelings for him anymore, i know hes not trust worthy because hes cheated in all his relationships and i dont want to be hurt again. do i give him another chance or do i forget and try to get on with it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

Listen to your heart. You say that you don't think that you have feelings for him anymore, and that you know that he is not trustworthy, so there is your answer! In the end it is you who has to date him, not his friends!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

No Sweetie..you should not go back. Trust is what the foundation of all lasting relationships rely. And if there is no trust, then there is no relationship. Remember, all the "Friends," who are telling you to get back together, are not the ones who had there heart torn out, and then pooped on.

~~The GabberJack

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2008):

superbunny agony auntSimply, no.

If you do not trust someone you should not be with them. You will drive both yourself and your partner crazy if you do not trust them.

Sorry if that seems harsh, but it's true. =[

xx

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