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anonymous
writes:Meet this guy last year. We both were newly single and dating other people. After three months we decided to only date each other. We were together every night. He text me and couldnt wait until I would get to his house at night. He told me everyday how much he missed seeing me when I was away. He talked highly about me to all his friends. He his custody of his daughter. She is having issues with the changes that occured in her life when he divorced. Since then...she has become very attached to me. I dont mind...I like having her around.As the result of his divorce he is losing his home. One more month to go. He has worked on trying to keep it. as soon as he found out the date of the auction. He has become very distant to me. Quiet... No more I love you's. I have to call him to contact him. He still seems to want me over nightly. He is so cold. Not mean or rude...Its jus night the same. The only thing he says now is..."You are to good to me and I am good for him" What concerns me is ... He gets texts at night that he never says who it is. I know he still talks to his ex girlfriends. I didnt care because they knew of me and I was with him everynight. I am so confused...Do you think he is interested in someone else? Do you think he is just under alot of stress with his home. I am so scared I am going to get hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for responding. I fear everyday that this is the last for us. When it comes night and he says he wants me there I am relieved. I have been divorced for 10 years. I have been in long term relationships. This truly is only the second time I have let all my walls down and gave someone my heart. I guess some of my fear comes from my past. I just dont understand how this has not effected him (foreclosure) until now... He knew this was going to happen before he met me.
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