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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok, I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years and all of a sudden i feel insecure about our relationship. It's all because it's hard to know what he is doing on a day to day basis-not 24.7. but anything. We live together and he never tells me where he is going-when I ask sometimes he plays around with the question and throws me a stupid answer. Because I can't seem to get deep into his life, I feel like we are not connected and we are too separated. If I talk to him about it, he doesn't see it as a problem. what do I do.PS. I lack girlfriends so I dont have anyone to really get relationship advice from. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you hlskitten,
I see what you mean, I think I do need a less bad boy. Sometimes I don't want to give my all to him since he's not reciprocating the same. I would hate to feel like that for the rest of my life. Thank you.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (17 August 2008):
 He's a person that likes to always keep something back. He's not an upfront and honest person is he, so its setting you on edge? Its very hard to trust these kinds of guys, and i'm taking my hat off to you for managing it for 5 yrs!
They never quite give you their all, and they dont even know they are like it (or they do and wont admit it)
so you are either going to have to accept that he wont always tell you where he is going etc. Or you find someone a little less bad boy? Women that ask no questions tend to be best suited to these kinds of guys in my opinion.
C xxxx
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