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writes:hello, i really want someone to help me plz this is the situation i think i still love this guy i have been out with him twice already but they didn` t last long as he keeps dumping me for stupid reasons e.g. once he dumped me because he had a argument with my best freind how stupid. and he wants me bk for the 3rd time i do still like him but i have just really gotten over him now nowing he likes me again it just got me thinking my freinds don` t like it they say i could do better but most of them i think r jelouse cause i no most of them also fancie him i have a weried feeling that he is using me y does he want to go back for the 3rd time? and should and do it? plz plz help thanks xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks alot this has really helped xxx btw i`m 15 not 13 lol xxx
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 You are very young but it is time to learn a wise lesson about relationships that will stand you in good footing for the future. People will only treat you as badly as you let them. That means you have to not go through life being a doormat for other people to tread on at their personal whim. You dated this guy, he dumped you and now it is time to move on with your life. Everyone gets rejected sooner or later and it is a horrible feeling. However, you can carry on accepting such behaviour from this guy like a passive mouse, or you can stand up for yourself and see that you deserve better by saying no. This guy is picking at old wounds because he likes the attention you give him but he is immature (or rather normal for most boys of his age!) and doesn't care about your feelings. If you wait a few years until you are older then you will meet more guys who know what they want and how to treat you like a lady. In the meantime, you don't have to put up with rubbish from little boys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): What kind of relationship do you have with this guy, how is he using you, you are only 13?
Try not being so hung up on him or too serious about possessing him, just be friends at this point and see how it goes. He is at an age where he is not going to want to be spending time alot with any girl....he is more into games and hanging out with his guy pals....so don't go getting your feelings hurt over this....you do the same, hang out with your girls and have some fun....you have plenty of time for boys.....and crushes and homework should be your first priority so you can grow up and be somebody and have the kind of life you deserve.
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 That all seems a bit strange to me but possibly he's just immature.Don't think of your friends that way-if they fancie his apperance doesn't meen they have no point in telling you he's not good for you...honestly I think the same-from what you wrote I made an impression the guy is...Dunno,he definitely doesn't know what he wants lol.Look,if you are over him at least a bit (and + you feel he's using you in a way) don't start it all over again,at least that's my advice.xxx
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