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writes:I know this might seem strange, but I think I'm in love, even though I'm 15. The guy that I love just turned 18. I like him for who he is, not because he's Mr. Whatever. I would take care of him; I would do whatever I could to help him. Every night, I cry because I know I can't have him. I have even prayed and suffered for him. If love is so great, then why do I feel pain and suffering? I don't even know if he likes me. Reply to this Question
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reader, bemused  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Hi hunI think that you may feel deeply because you are the age you are. You are probably new to these feelings and they are deep and real to you. I do not doubt that your feelings are real. Do you spend much time around this guy?Does he go to your school? Is there a dance or something coming up where you could test the waters and see if there is a chance he might be feeling the same way? I agree with the other posts....you should find out. Above all sweetie...do not be too hard on yourself here. Just try to relax,hang out with your friends and send out a signal or two to this guy. He may feel the eame way...he may not but you are going to meet someone who will think you are special. You sound like a caring and sensitive person. Good luch sweetie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): I agree with Emaz help. You should tell him how you feel. I told the guy I like that I liked him and I feel so much better that I told him. You won't have that regret on your shoulders, because you will regret something that you didn't do more than something that you did do. You only have one life, one chance! And they say that true love hurts. Tell him, hunni, because you never know how perfect it could turn out to be. And if he doesn't feel the same, you will move on eventually, and you're prince is out there somewhere x
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Have you told this boi how u feel?
U should
If he doesn't like you then although it's hard, u need 2 forget about him.
You will move on eventually
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (28 September 2007):
 It does hurt but ... now this might not make much sense to anyone but me...but love hurts so much because it feels so good.
it has the potential to feel amazing, you know how happy you would be if you were with him and you know that the feelings you would have would be so beautiful and there would be so much love. thats why it hurts like hell to know you cant have it.
the only consolation is that it happens to everyone, we all get through it and although it feels like the world is ending right now try to think of it as it is only feelings and eventually they will pass. and you will forget about him. honestly!!
good luck
brooke
xx
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reader, FluffyFluff  +, writes (28 September 2007):
Have you actually spoken to him about how you feel? i know its hard, but its the only way! So you cant say you cant have him, if you havent even really tried!
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