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*airhalflin
writes:i started seeing this guyi dont know exactly what it is about him that made me like him a lot. But he's great. i dont know what's been wrong with everything lately. like, i've always given the guy space whenever he needed it. i guess i've always been lenient about everything since forever. well he disappeared for a whole damn week and when he's back into town or whatever. he doesn't even call or anything. i know this because his cousin is my best friend. so...yeah.i dont know like...sometimes i feel like he's not trying. i mean. agh. i try because i like him.honestly, i'm tired of my history repeating itself like it always does. i've started to notice that maybe this one is going to crap like the rest. what should i say to him?or what should i do?i really like him.
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reader, fairhalflin +, writes (29 September 2007):
fairhalflin is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well the last time I checked we've been seeing each other for a month.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 OK, you said you're relationships go to crap? Do you take time to really think about what you want in a partner? Usually if history is like a broken record, it's not because of them. Figure out what it is about them that is common. Personality, behavior that all of your boyfriends share. Then you'll need to eliminate that characteristic from what you look for in a boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): Well, if he hasn't even called, are you sure you were really seeing eachother? He might have thought his time with you to be just a fling. Ask your cousin if he likes you or if he has said anything about you.
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