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writes:I'm a sophomore, and the guy I like is a senior. Our homecoming is in 3 weeks. I don't talk to him often, and we don't have any classes together. I would like to ask him, but I don't know what he'll say. I asked him to prom last year and he said no, but was nice and didn't make fun of me. I also need some conversation ideas, so I can actually talk to him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): If you don't ask him. You will live the rest of your life wondering what would have happened if you did. I say, go for it. Just ask him if he has a date to homecoming or ask "hey I was just thinking if you don't have a date to homecoming would you like to go (with me)?" Be casual. If he says no, say "okay maybe some other time". He sounds like a nice guy. He probably will say yes. If you ask him first, you have an upper hand and higher chance of going with him. Do it. Who knows maybe he said no last year because he was nervous, prom is a big scary deal.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (28 September 2007):
Being a year after you first asked him out and you are no closer to him at all. I suggest you ask someone in your group of friends instead. Tell your girlfriends that you want to go. Have them ask their boyfriends if they know anyone. There are probablly a few guys out there that would like to ask you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): Hi there. Your prom sounds exiciting! First of all, he seems like a nice guy to let you down gently, so thats good, but i wouldent ask him untill you get to know him a bit better. Try saying hi to him, and if he says hi back, start a conversation. It could be about anything, a teaher you like, your favourite song, or last nights tv. Then, if things are going well, casually mention the prom. Find out if hes taking anyone, and if not ask him! what have you got to lose? However, if he declines or has somebody else to go with, this may not be the guy for you.
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