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Someone told my best friend I fancy him; he said he already knew! What do I do now?

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Question - (11 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey!

I have a problem. I finally let one of my friends tell my best guy friend I like him! The problem is when she told him,he didn't say anything other than he already knew! He flirts all the time, like eye contact and smiling at me constantly. Should I ask him out next time I see him? I have no clue what to do!! Thanks!

~ Confused

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A male reader, curious-borg United States +, writes (14 April 2011):

Find out what the hold up is... Guys in general are the pursuers so if they like someone and know that she likes him back, then when they "don't go for it" there is usually some good reason.

Lack of experience, divided feelings, lack of interest etc all.

Find out where he is coming from and what his goals/and likes with females are he will probably share.

As a secondary plan dont be so available if he starts to come around and look for you then you will know.

Good luck sweety!

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHey babe, dont worry chick, go out with him, like outside school etc.. maybe to the cinema, bring both your mates along, and maybe have some time to yourself. Then if you still like him that much, go for it chick. Hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

Well i wouldn't worry so much for one thing, take it easy and relaxed. If you really and truly like the idea of asking this guy out then go for it. Ask him if he would like to meet up some time, just the two of you to get to know each other a little better. I'm not denying that he might not share the same feelings as you, chances are 50/50, there's a possibility he's been shy about the subject. but you'll never know if you don't make a move and you'll regret that more believe me than playing it safe and not making a move.

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