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Dating: Help and advice

He was my one true sweetheart but that was over 10 years ago! We are still in contact but hes married, I love him more now than ever, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi,I HAD to talk to someone about this because I am so confused and devastated. I was only 16 but found the love of my life and he had said I too was his first true love and I never stopped loving him. The only reason we broke up was because his mom ...

I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago and now I'm getting itchy! I'm married and he is seeing someone too although he said it's not serious. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago. We had such a great time. He sent me an email afterwards saying what a great time he had and asking if we can have dinner again in the near future. He is dating someone on and off but did say he wants to ...

Should I continue to see my girlfriend who's bi polar? We get on great but there's problems too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - im 15 years old and going out with a bipolar girlfriend.I used to go out with another girl and she left me and went out with my bestfriend which i was devastated over and kinda got depressed over and my current girlfriend was with me all the way. ...

He has a new girlfriend that he works with but still calls me, now I don't know where I stand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My ex and i split about 2 months ago and recently we decided that we should meet up because we both felt ready. We ended up getting on really well and he was ringing me all the time and told me he still loved me. However he has a new girlfriend who ...

Do you think it's better to start college off with a relationship or without one??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hey, everybody. So I've liked my guy friend for awhile now and he feels the same way towards me and things might get to the point where we may start dating sooner or later, but the problem with this is next year, we are both going off to college ...

Should I call him first or should I let the next move come from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi there - I'm hoping you can help me with this... I was out with my friends at the weekend. I had some eye contact with a guy - and he started chatting to me. He invited me and my friends to join his friends. So - he spent most of the nigh...

I'm sticking with it for now to avoid being on my own, what shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Help! My partner and I have been together for nearly 5 years. We used to have a good time together but over the last 6 months my feelings have changed and we've really drifted apart. I have a son who's 11 from my previous marriage and he has two ...

Do you think she likes me? I'm totally confused by her actions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Hello, I wonder if anyone could help please. I have known a girl for three years, each year we have become closer and closer but we are not going out. All my friends have told me that she likes me and I have noticed especially over the last year, ...

Why can she never express her love to me or say those three little words?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have been dating this girl for the past four months now. She claims she can never say the words " I love you" and even when I express my love to her she doesn't respond. she avoids intimacy and only kissed me once. on valentines day I bought her a ...

Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend!! We have fantastic sex I just want to do something different that will really blow him away!! Any of you ladies or gents out there got any useful tips!! ...

Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age? My girlfriend asked her mum if she could get the pill a month before she was sixteen and her mum said 'Okay' and was not shocked. My gf claims her mu...

He still has pictures of his ex girlfriend up and he won't take them down even although they bother me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - my boyfriend has pictures of his ex girlfriend in his home, both with him and her and her with his kids. i have mentioned on 2 occasions that it bothers me but he said they are just pictures and his kids are in them so he's leaving them up....

He doesn't trust condoms and I don't like taking medication including birth control pills. How can we combat this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - when my boyfriend and i are messing around to the point of possible sex, it always ends because he doesn't trust condoms and im not on birth control. he has asked me before if id think about going on it, and i have thought about it, but the more i ...

When we argue I'M always the one who's wrong. He also doesn't want to marry me. Does he think I'm not good enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i have been with my fiance for 3 years and he cant be honest with me, he refuses to accept any kind of blame if we argue and im always in the wrong, he thinks im trying to change him but im not, just trying to make him grow up an to stop thinking ...

Been with him for 4 years but the chemistry has gone. I feel as if I'm out with my mate or brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi I've been with my current partner for just over 4 years. I was married previously and I knew him as a friend when I was married. We got together not long after the split from my husband and we seemed to have loads in common. Our combined kid...

How can I get him back or at least get the feelings going again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - how do i get him back or at least get the feelings going again if we only see each other when we drop our daughter off to each other and his girlfriend is always with:?...

I'm enjoying his attention and don't want to lose it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - im 18 and have a boyfriend whom i love . He doesnt work he is still in matric. i have a full time job and there is someone that works with me who is 33, married with one child who is extremely into me! we both wont let anythin happen because of the ...

My boyfriend is really sweet buthe lies all the time. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I love my bf a whole lot, we have been together for two years. He used to be the sweetest thing ever, but know he lies, all the time, and he's started being really rude and mean to me. What should i do??????????? Please help...

He seems more interested in this other woman (who's married) than he does me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - The man I have been dating seems to constantly talk about a woman he works closely with. Although she is married with small children, he seems interested but doesn't persue becaus she's married. He seems to find every opportunity to talk about her ...

Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past. We've been together for 18mos. We're both early 30's so obviously there are going to be people before us, but I have a feeling that if I asked for her number I would probably ...

My girlfriend wears the pants! How do I get the pants back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend wears the pants. How do I get my pants back?!? I feel this problem stems from her making alot more money than I do. It isn't really possible for me to make more money because I am at uni full-time and she isn't, so I don't have the t...

How much more should I give and take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - How much more should I give and take? Based on mistakes in past relationships i've made myself a very open and honest person. I have learned that keeping things inside and not openly communicating in a relationship can make it rot from the ins...

I'm so confused about these texts. What do you make of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hello, im very confused.... im just gonna show you all exactly the messages i have received today, but let me tell you all this.... first.... things have been fine between me and my boyfriend (me 26 him 23, atleast i thought they were....w...

I am in a wonderful relationship. Why is my head filled with negative thoughts all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - well lets see, my head is filled with negative thoughts about relationships even though im in a wonderful relationship. I constantly ask myself, "what if we break up? "what if i fall inlove with someone else a need top break up? what if we get ...

I have a girlfriend but I've met someone else. What's the best way to tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - ok i have a girlfriend that goes to school in flordia and i think she's in love with me but i found someone else that i really really like and i dont know wat to do how should i break up with my current gf i want to do it over the phone cause i ...

I like this guy and have been out with him once, there's only one problem.... the EX!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - OK, so there is this guy that I really like, and I know that he likes me! But there is one little issue, the exgirlfriend! We did go out to dinner once already and had a great time! He is friends with all of my friends and that is how I know that he ...

How can I balance my new job and continuing to see my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I'm thinking about taking up a job that might affect the number of times I'll be able to see my boyfriend. He lives 2 hours away from me, and we spend every weekends together since we dated 2 yrs ago. If I take on this job, I know most of my ...

I like this guy but have heard he's a bit of a player. Should I still show an interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi im 16 and not had a boyfriend for over a year now. I went out a few months ago and this lad started talking to me, he's 18 tho. ive seen him around a few times as well and i do lie him, but my friend knows him and she said he's slept with girls ...

Do you think one guy was jealous of the other and that's why he called ME a loser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I sent my cousin (same age as me 18) an angry email complete with profanity and insults. I was angry at the time and said it all out of anger. I didn't mean any of it, but I wrote it anyway. I said that in the email (that I didn't mean it). I feel ...

I'm seeing a man 20 years older than me who I love very much, we're very close but not sexually, I don't think he's done it before, he seems really shy. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6275 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - PLEASE HELP! Im in desperate need of advice. Ive been in love with a man 20 yrs my senior for more than 2yrs. I know that he feels the same and we have been close although not sexually, and i dont think he has done it before. I have told him how i ...

She's broken up with me but says she still wants to keep in touch but I don't think that's wise. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - can anybody help me pls! my ex broke up with me coming up to a month now cos we were arguing a lot! we got together just 3mths after my dad passed away so I had alot to deal with! I wanted to break up with her first cos I knew it was coming to an ...

We have 4 months left together before she goes to Canada to study for a few years. She has suggested seeing less of one another but I really don't know, I don't want this relationship to end...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Hi everyone... My gf is going to Canada to study for a few years. We love each other very much but we arent' sure of how to keep a long-distance relationship going... She's going to Canada in Augest... We have about 4 more months left with each ...

What can I do to make the first move and kiss him? He's too shy so I want to take the initiative here.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My bf and i have been dating for about a week. Im not trying to rush things cuz im not that type of girl but usually in the first few days of dating a guy i always end up kissing them. Now with this new guy he is shy when it comes to physical...

Do I wait for her or do I move on? She said she wants to be with me...but is not ready right now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have recently come out of a two year relationship, after my fiance found she had feelings for another man and when he returned those feelings she put me to one side and started ignoring me and leaving me alone. We did split up, however every time ...

Can a relationship survive long term knowing that there is a very good chance that you will never live together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of two years was spending almost 5 nights a week at my house, he has never been married/engaged or had children but has now said that he needs to spend more time on his own, which i am ok about as he is most of the time very much ...

She picks on EVERYTHING I do! She even says if I fall asleep before her, I'm neglecting her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I am 3 years into a relationship.I`m aware of my bad points.I even told her my negative points from day one. Now 3 years down the line she`s constantly nagging and bringing up my bad points. She organises everything we do,without a thought. I am ...

When sober my bf is wonderful! When drunk he's loud, obnoxious and aggressive! Do I get rid of him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is wonderful when he's sober, we have a great time and get on really well. However, when he's drunk, I hate him. He's loud, obnoxious and very aggressive towards me for no reason. It doesn't take much to start him off then he just ...

My ex secretly filmed us having sex and put it online! My new bf now calls me a slag! What can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - hay really need help im 22 and ive just found out 2 years ago some guy filmed me and him having sex and took pictures with out my consent god knows how i didnt see the camra or owt! but now there all over the internet i dont know what to do? people ...

I don't know if he wants to get to know me or if he's actually just after one thing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I am looking for a relationship. Not a serious one just a relationship involving 2 people who are comitted to each other and have fun. I am currently getting to know this boy, but i am not sure of his intentions. He has just come out of a 2 year ...

Since the ring on my finger I feel that that I am constantly judged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Recently the relationship im in took a turning point were we gave each other engagement rings as the relationship has been a very happy one and i thought we understood each other.Since then i have had all my negative points brought up,The fact that ...

I'm a virgin but how do I trust a girl and have a proper relationship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I would only trust a girl if she surrenders herself to me physically. I will be one of the nicest guy for her if she does that. Otherwise, i am not interested. Not many girls would be able to get this thing about me and would think of me as wanting ...

I found out the beginning of our relationship wasn't what I thought. How do I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I'm 20 and I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. We've been living together for 9 months. Last week we were both talking about previous relationships and flings when we got on the subject of the last person we'd slept with ...

For the agony AUNTS - I like this girl but do you think she'll be put off by a little acne?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Question for the girls: Do you care if a guy has a little bit of acne? I mean if a person always has a few pimples and when they go away briefly it looks like the skin is not smooth but a bit rough? Is it really the person's personality that...

The girls at work like me for my friendliness but I don't want complications.. I'm getting engaged!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I can't really feel a difference when i am engaged in a conversation with a girl at work and the one i am dating outside. I turn mellow sometimes in work with them for this reason. Some girls at work find me quite friendly and try to have a go after ...

Is this the beginning of the end for our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6277 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Having recently seperated after 21 years of marriage I met an amazing young lady on the internet during December last year. She is eleven years younger than me - I have three kids two living with me - and she has not been married nor has any kids. ...

I love my girlfriend but she hasn't given me any reason to trust her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I love my girlfriend and she loves me, so she says, but I cant tell if I should trust her or no. She hasn't done anything for me not to trust her but she hasn'1 given me a reason to trust her niether. What should I do?...

What does it mean to become "comfortable" in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6277 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - what does it mean to become comfortable in a relationship, like when you get past the honey moon stage what does that feel like?...

Why do I find it impossible to ask anyone out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I find it completely impossible to ask anyone out. even if I am alone with them and chatting about stuff I just don't seem to be able to ask them. do you have any advice?...

He stares at me then turns away as if he's afraid. What will I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i like this boy and i told his best friend to tell him. he said he liked me a little but all he does when he sees me in the hall way is stare at me and then he just turns away like he's afarid. what should i do?????? ...

I dont know if I have something wrong with me, but I think mentally cheating on someone is way messed up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I have been with myboyfriend for one year last month. During that year I found out that he was emailing his stripper ex girlfriend and telling her how much he needed her and she would write back the same, never mind that she was MARRIED. I dont know ...

I am emotionally attracted to this person but not sexually... yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I am in a relatively fresh relationship with someone, we have deep feelings for eachother, they want to take it to the bedroom with me and have sex. I myself am emotionally attracted to this person, but i am not attracted sexually. I don't want to ...

My boyfriend keeps saying things to me to freak me out. Am I over reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6277 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Am I freaking out for no reason? My fiance went on vacation for two months and it wasn't a business trip. He did fly me down once, and I'm going two more times. I trust him, but he says weird things like "I met a couple last night and they asked me ...

How do I stop being so guilty regarding my friend?

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27 February 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, Recently, my crush admitted to me that he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend, who is one of my closest friends. Well, during Spanish class today, I passed her a note asking her if she likes him, too. She said that she does "somewh...

Am I being jealous and controlling?

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27 February 2007 (F) - Am I being jealous and controlling, and if I am how do I stop? My fiance and I just got engaged two months ago, and a month ago he left for a vacation by himself for two months (his dad and friends are going down two separate weeks). I saw him last ...

My partner has been engaged 3 times in the past, he says he loves me but never talks about our "future." Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He was engaged 3 times before. First time he was in his early-mid 20s. Second time he was was in his early 30s and last time in his mid-30s. I have never brought up marriage to him. He ...

My boyfriend cheated on me but I forgave him. He still keeps in touch and has had lunch with her since. Is it time to finally let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with his friend. I decided to stay with with him but i told him that i could never forget what happend. I have forgiven him for the incident. But lately I've found them eating lunch and dinner together. He doesn't like to ...

Met a guy on internet dating, met up, emailed him afterwards, he replied once, emailed him again and haven't heard back from him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Did the internet dating site. Met a nice guy and went out to lunch. After a lunch of about 2 hours, we walked around for 2 hours just talking. I emailed him the next day, then he emailed me back. I emailed once more - that was a week ago. No ...

Do I need my parent's consent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - hi i am 15 currently going to be 16 in a few days i live in the united kingdom and wanted to know.. if i can stay at my boyfriends house without concent of my mum....

I am gay and love my partner very much, he wants to come out the closet but is worried as his mother would tell him to pack his bags.

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27 February 2007 (M) - I am a gay guy (23) and I am in a relationship with the most perfect guy (22) I am just worried about him because I know he hurts. See I am out to my parents and everyone is very happy for us. But he is not out to his parents yet. He does want to ...